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Weird question, but are there any girls who are ashamed or embarrassed of their breasts?

I was talking to my best friend today and I finally admitted to her why I make comments about her boobs being small. I told her it was because I wish mine were her size. I don't make negative comments, but I always point out they're smaller and she asked me why finally today why I do that. But it's legit because I really sincerely hate mine. She's a B cup and I'm a DD and I wish mine were a B. I was thinking of getting breast reduction after I save up some money. I don't care about scarring. I just want them smaller. I really do not like them. I lost 20 pounds and still managed to go up a size and I see them spilling out of the DD bras I have now. I'm 5'2 and a half, which makes them looking even bigger.

She told me that's not normal to not like my boobs. But I told her that's why I'm always wearing hoodies, even though it's like...90 degrees out. I don't wear T-shirts or fitted shirts if I can avoid it. I try to hide them as much as possible. I'm also not really girlie. Like the whole make up and pedicure and hair salon and dresses and heels... yeah, I hate that. But I'm not a lesbian, dyke, or have gender identity issues. Just not feminine. She thinks that's why I'm self conscious about them.

I was wondering if any other girl has felt this way. I know some smaller chested girls feel this way and want them bigger, but is there anyone with big boobs and really just want them smaller?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Honestly as a petite, thin girl with C's I feel you. C's aren't huge by any means but people my whole life, ever since I got them, had to constantly make a big deal out of them.

    If I wore a tanktop or anything form fitting people lost their shit like I was naked. They'd act like I just decided to have tits that day just to be risque. People would stare, make crude comments and overall make me feel embarrassed. It was like other girls could wear whatever they wanted and it looked fine but if I did then I was dressing like a total slut. I didn't understand because my boobs, to me, aren't that big.

    Well I had to get the courage to tell people to stop making comments and calling out people who stare. I came to discover that the reason people were saying things wasn't because my boobs were just unnaturally big, it was because I was small and always had been up to that point, so seeing me go from scrawny and flat to thin and kind of busty just shocked people. I'm more comfortable with it now but I still get bashful about it from time to time. I don't want them to be smaller though.

  • A lot of women feel pretty insecure or unhappy about their breasts. I remember that for the first couple of years of development my breasts had this weird sort of angular shape that looked terrible to me.

    Now mine are ginormous and round. I like them, but I sometimes wish I looked better without a bra on, because bras can get pretty uncomfortable at this size.

  • I must admit that I would probably be more comfortable if my breasts were smaller, but I would never consider surgery to reduce their size. I'm a 36 DDD, which makes wearing certain styles of clothing difficult because it makes my entire body look larger as well. That, and the back pain, are the only reasons I don't like having large breasts!

  • I understand. I did when I was younger I wanted my boobs smaller I'm 34DD and I'm on the small side so I get rude comments all the time on if they're real and even as a kid in school i'd attract a lot of gross men who'd say things to me which disgusted me, I'm OK now hope you get there girl

Most Helpful Guys

  • Just wanna say that you are all f'in beautiful.
    God made all the different boob sizes to give each girl some individuality.
    And we guys like seeing them 😊.
    We all have our own preferences, i personally like smaller cup sizes, but a lot of guys like big ones.

    Now, why god made different dick sizes i will never understand...

    • Thanks for mho. Going trough it again, my answer was probably not very related to the issue lol. I hope you are feeling a bit better now. Did you have the reduction or did you decide om embracing what nature gave you? 😊

  • Absolutely girls can be ashamed of them being too small or too big. The wide majority of the time they're fine and it's just them being self conscious.

    • They can be uneven as well.

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  • We always want what we don't have. Personally I wish I were flat chested.

    • haha why? .. guys won't like a flat chested girl 😂

    • I don't really care about guys, cuz I want it for my own comfort. Boobs are painful and too sexualized, and as a dancer they always get in the way 😢

    • haha i see

  • I guess we all want what we don't have, lol. I'm not really insecure about my breasts, but it would be nice if they were at least proportionate to the size of my body. I'm 6'1", thin with broad shoulders, and B cup boobs. They look so tiny on me 😂

  • I'm in the smaller camp admiring and being envious of bigger ones.

  • If them being smaller means that they become perky, then yes. I don't mind the size of my boobs, but I am very embarrassed at how much they sag.

  • I use to be, I'm an A

  • Not me... I'm pleased with my size and shape.

  • I wish they were bigger
    why don t you like them?
    you feel they don t fit your figure? makes look fatter? makes you feel objectified?

  • I hear you, I think people think having big boobs is just awesome but it would be difficult for me, I'm 5 3. I hope you get the money for the breast augmentation surgery and maybe try sports bras to keep them close if you will? Take care

  • Even though I grew up in a body positive household, I was heavily embarrassed by my boobs in my teens because they were uneven.

    It wasn't until I was 19 (as they kinda evened out and I had many conversations with my mom) did I feel mostly happy about them.

  • I think it's perfectly normal. I wished I could safely enlarge my penis, but unfortunately there isn't a safe way of doing so.

  • My ex wife was extremely insecure about how small hers were no matter how much I said I loved them.

  • As sexy big boobs are, smaller ones are easier to deal with so less problems.

  • i think it may be common. you should try out some cute clothes, you may just think it's troublesome but it's actually fun to be girly

  • it's pretty common for people to want what they haven't got and be unhappy with what they have got

  • There can be 😅

  • you will have to show so that we can comment on them LOL

    i am sure they are not all bad

  • I know exactly how you feel.
    5'4 and DD. I live in an area where everything is over-sexualized and get comments about their size regularly. I remember being in the 8th grade and begging my mom to let me get a breast reduction. She didn't allow me to obviously. I would only consider one today to lessen the back pain that they cause.
    There's nothing for you to be ashamed of. They may draw attention but they're a part of you. Embrace it. If you decide to get them smaller then that's your decision, do what makes you comfortable.

  • Nooo not me!!!

  • Yeah, Im a 38H and would love a reduction but I am scared of the surgery and it is expensive..

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