When a girl tells a guy she is using a vibrator?

Say a girl is using her vibrator and decides to text this dude about it. Do guys think this is hot? Or just weird and random? Or what?
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The guy is someone she is someone she has had sex with before and is likely going to have sex with him again. Friends for now but almost dated at one point.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • The fact that you masturbate and use a vibrator is no big deal, since, as "scbigmac07" has indicated, we all know that most of the girls masturbate.

    BUT

    The fact that you are calm and confident enough to openly talk about it and tell that you own a vibrator is a very good feeling for the guy, I can tell you.

    It is hot for sure!

    =)

  • It's hot, but that kind of teasing requires pleasing. Meaning if your so horny to do it yourself and tell him about it, he is going to want to play too. Foreplay is my favorite part. You don't need to do it yourself. Lean back and let me do it for you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • iknow I am not a guy... But I think that is ridiculous. It makes the girl sound slutty and desperate for attention. I am sorry for being blunt about it but... you know. I'm sure a guy wants more than just a whore in his "girls" life. Hope this helped:)

    • I could not disagree more. There's nothing "slutty" about masturbation and there is nothing wrong with a girl expressing her sexual desire.

    • This is the kind of comment that sometimes makes girls feel like they should be ashamed of masturbation or wanting to have sex. It's in our nature to want to turn guys on, and the guy she chooses isn't relevant to you. Hopefully he thinks it's hot, but if he doesn't, it doesn't mean she's a whore. If he texted her the same kind of thing, no one would call him a slut.

    • Okay, I'm not saying that anyone should be ashamed at all whatsoever. I just think that girls shouldn't have to text a guy and tell them that stuff... I mean girls can turn guys on in many different ways. I'm sorry that I wasn't considering other point of views..

  • I don't think it's weird or anything that she uses a vibrator. I think that's completely normal. Considering the situation of it all, I don't find her telling the guy about it that weird either... "/

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  • I'd think it's funny, but other than that, it's not that big of a deal. I don't know a single woman girl that doesn't masturbate. It just sucks for women because a guy's sex toy doesn't have to be some sort of secret.

  • it would be extremely random some what awkward and kinda hot

  • It would totally turn me. Female masturbation is totally hot to me. But some guys are different. They see the vibrator as competition. It really depends on the guy.

  • the fact that she uses one is normal, the fact that she would text someone randomly is getting on to the strange side

  • cant get enough robot penis huh?

    i think it matters a lot who "this dude" is. your brother? guy you barely know? boyfriend?

  • Random, slutty, and crying out for attention.

  • That's hot!