Threesome with my boyfriend and best guy friend?

I want to have a threesome with my boyfriend and one of my best guy friend. how do I ask my boyfriend? because I don't know how he feels about being with another guy while with me and he doesn't like my friend that much. I don't know any way to ask without not making me and him feel awkward.help?

 

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  • It seems like you'd know your boyfriend good enough to know or at least suspect that he'd go for this. Just ask him like a joke thing at first and get his reaction. I've read about a lots of guys that actually get turned on when some other guy gets turned on to his b/f. Also, participating in this will give him the opportunity to see how to respond to other guys and if this guys does some things that you like that he doesn't. Like as learning process even. But don't expect your boyfriend to go for your friend, and however you do it make sure it's just you that gets all the sexual attention. Having the opportunity of watching a girlfriend get satisfied by another guy would have to be a major turn-on for most boyfriends. Just kid about it from time to time until your boyfriend goes along with it. I have already been the "extra" guy and I never knew her boyfriend before, and It went much better than expected. We even had the 3-some 2 more times and she told me later that her boyfriend has really improved in satisfying her sexually, nor does he get anywhere near as jealous as he did before when guys hit on her. He's come to really trust her. She was really hot and sometimes that goes with having a really hot gilfriend.

What Guys Said 8

  • why not bring up the idea of a 3some.don't be specific and see what he thinks of it.with guys and girls in it.just see what his reaction is like and take it from there.do you think he would be into it? and if he suggested another girl? would you be into that ?

  • look @ it like this, I'm sure your boyfriend wouldn't want to see your guy friend f***ing you, and if he brought another girl in the mix you wouldn't wanna see him doing the same with another girl

  • Oh well Dear.Let's break this one down into logical steps.1. A guy friend seems always to be thread for a emotional involved boyfriend.2. Guys that do not like each other would never share the experience of a 3some.3. You are dreaming the male dream in a female body (means guys want to have 2 girls at the same time).No here are my inputs :If your "best guy friend" is any thread to your boyfriend, just forget about it.is your boyfriend sexually open to your point of view ?What are your goals and hopes to get out of this ?Are you being selfish to forefill your fantasies, or his he sexually willing to explore as you are ?After all, this one is very touchy and needs some more homework.Dr.S

  • don't be greedy, isn't one **** enough

  • Ummm... I see it has been more than a year. I'm curious -- did it work out?

  • if you say your boyfriend don't like you guy friend for any reason .my advice don't even think about asking just imagine your boyfriend bring a girl who you are just friends with because she is a friend your boyfriend . then he say I will like us to have some threesome if you say you can have sex with him and any girl he brings in . then tell him this you want threesome first with a girl then after with a boy of your choice and see how he reacts

  • im sure there are hundreds of thoudands of guys that would sleep with you but really although its a fanntacy I don't think you will feel that great after it, like you might feel used to be honest,but if you have to just make sure your boyfriend is not threatened the last thing you want to do is risk your relationship.

  • Two guys, you should think yourself lucky youve got one cos a lot of guys have very high standards, You are way below mine, what is wrong with you, this is sick.Why have you posted a picture of your dog as your ID

What Girls Said 3

  • It must be us Illinois girls who like these kinds of things. I have had several occasions where my girlfriend and I have shared a guy together for a night. It was the greatest every time. The difference between us might be, I have not a very good history of keeping a boyfriend for very long and the emotional attachment isn't so much there.Only thing I can really suggest is if you really really like (love) this boyfriend things might look very differently after you watch him stick his penis in your girlfriend! THINK ABOUT THATIf you do go through with it let me know how it works out for you and have a blast doing it.

  • All I can tell you is that no matter what. getting those two guys in bed with you at the same time won't work. I've asked a similar question on this site but I was trying to see how I could get my boyfriend to try a threesome with another girl. The best answer was giving by DeltaBoy1983 and he said "You are doing it right though by keeping it spicy in the relationship, but the only thing is you may get questioned on where these ideas are coming from. When I suggested trying new things with an old girlfriend of mine, she quickly asked where I was getting these ideas. I told her from men's magazines. This apparently caused her to be self conscious about her appearance, thinking I preferred the woman in the magazines over her. I had to convince her it was not that way, that I was into her and her alone. He will come around on the idea, but you need to reassure him that this is for both of you. That you are there for him and not the girl being brought in to the mix, or that this will lead into other things beyond his sexual boundaries."This trully helped a lot. You could always try and ask. but most guys will not go for the two guy one girl thing. Hope this helped you as much as it helped me.

    • Very good and accurate answer! I have only had one guy back out of a night with my girlfriend and me, and we have successfully had a night of sex with one guy (different guys) at least 6 times

    • Yeah, it turned out the only reason my boyfriend was backing out of the idea was because he didn't want me to have to question how faithful I was to him. but I finally shook him from that idea and now we're currently looking for a third person.

  • um I don't know your boyfriend but I know most guys aren't into mmf threesomes. if you said your best *girl* friend it would be different! if you did still want to ask him, you definitely shouldnt include your best guy friend because that would make your boyfriend feel threatened. if it was just a random guy or someone you weren't close to, then it wouldn't be so bad ya konw

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