I got my STD test results back. Should I tell my ex?
I don't really think he deserves to know. He cheated on me last year. He also contracted an STI a couple years ago when we first starting dating and continues to blame it on me even though my results were clean and I was checked by several doctors, one of which checked him, and all confirmed I didn't give it to him. He made SEVERAL dating profiles while we were together and overall just treated me like dirt, never even took me on a date. He made another dating profile a few weeks ago and I just couldn't take it anymore so I left. But before the relationship was over, he started accusing me of giving him an STD because he had like 3 or 4 bumps on his penis shaft. He won't go get tested, though, because he said his job doesn't allow off time (insert appropriate 'bullshit' here) and he doesn't have insurance (this is a person who makes $1,600 bi-weekly and has over $50,000 in savings).
I finally got my test results back and they were completely clean. Again. I'm not shocked. I've never cheated on him so of COURSE I wouldn't have anything. BUT I did tell him like a few days before we broke up that I'd tell him my results but at this point I just feel like he flat out doesn't even deserve to know. I haven't spoken to him since May 30th and I want to keep it that way but I'm also not someone who goes back on my word.
None of my friends think I should tell him. He and I don't have mutual friends, either. He never introduced me to his friends, family, or co-workers.
Most Helpful Guys