Blow Job Tips?

I would really like input from anyone. I am looking for ways to spice it up and I'm running out of ideas! We've tried it (sorry to list but I didn't know another way) standing up, sitting down, laying down, in the shower, 69 style, with lubes that heat or cool, he didn't want to try pop rocks, lingam massage beforehand, on the road, after I drink something hot or cold, with mints. We're not sleeping together because we want to wait. But I really would like to pleasure him the most I possibly can until then. I also am getting really good at hand jobs, so I combine that too. I've put some good research into it but I don't know what else I can do. Any ideas? I haven't really gotten the multiple orgasms thing down, although I am trying. He loves it all, we've been together over four years and I want to make it the best I can. Any input is welcome!
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  • 1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

    2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

    3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

    4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

    5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

    6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

    7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

    8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

    9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.

    10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

    Good luck,

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  • Err it sounds like you don't need any help. Sounds like we need to be asking you more questions. I posted this in another similar topic about 5 mins ago, but I think you already got this covered.

    "Every guy has different sensitivity. Uncircumsised guys have higher sensitivity. Circ guys have lower sensitivity. It also depends on age, and also is different from guy to guy.

    You have to guage the sensitivity for yourself. For uncirc guys, you can't really go wrong. In some cases you might even have to be gentle, because it can hurt if you are rough. For some guys, sex hurts because the foreskin has hidden their head all their life.

    For circ guys, especially the lower sensitivity ones.. more friction is better. The shaft itself isn't that sensitive. The head and especially underneath (called the frenulem) is the most sensitive spot. It's like the magic spot if you need to use it.

    One hand working the shaft, and your mouth on his head would work very well, even if he had low sensitivity.

    Guys are also very visual, so what they see (some cleavage, or your facial expressions) can work wonders.

    Every guy is different though. Need to play it by ear. Also if he is inexperienced, you can't really go wrong."

    • Thanks! Do you know anything about multiple orgasms? I know that multiple ejaculations aren't possible. I think that its the feeling of an orgasm, not an orgasm? Is that right? I've tried several times, and we have really good communication, but I can't seem to get it quite right.

    • Multiple orgasms for a guy or girl? I know nothing about girl multiple orgasms, but I thought they were just a normal thing that happen when you keep going. For guys, it's more complicated. Do you mean for guys? When I was younger, I could come 3-5 times in a row but each time the amount that came out would be smaller and smaller to the point that it'd be practically nothing. Now 2 is about the limit. But it depends on the waiting time in between. After 10-15 mins it's easier.

    • Every guy is different. How much energy he has, if he is tired etc. Some guys are just more sexual then others. I think what you were referring to is a dry orgasm. I don't know if I'd had these or not. Maybe I have had "mini" ones but they didn't feel anywhere as good as a normal one. It also depends on age, as you get older it becomes harder. When you are in puberty or in early 20's it's easier. Practice makes perfect but I don't think you are doing anything wrong.

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  • every guy's hot spot is in a different place. the key is finding his hot spot. if you know his hot spot you're ahead. a good place that's sensitive and will REALLLY get him going is right below the shaft. use your hands while you're giving him head. when you're pulling, in the handjob motion while giving a blowjob, twist. ex: you have your mouth on his penis, your hand around it right under your mouth, you move your hand and head in the same motion at the same speed but when you bring your hand up twist it. go straight down, twist up, straight down, twist up, you get the picture lol don't forget the boys haha while you're doing that use your other hand to play with his sack a little. right under his penis at the base you can lick a sort of V and lick your way back up. the very tip of his penis is the most sensitive though. right under the shaft and the tip. if you watch p*rn, you'll see girls suck on one spot or suck the side of it all the way up and that's because when you suck like that it increases the sensitivity which helps also. you can teach yourself to deepthroat too. honestly, you can teach yourself to do anything you want. deepthroat, squirt, get mouthf***ed and not gag, etc. you can lick the area around his penis too giving him the tease. don't do it for long though because you don't want him to sit there for 10mins thinking, "ok when is she going to suck my **** again is this it?"dont forget to look at him and don't act like it's a job. show him you WANT to do it that you're enjoying it.

  • Alot of times you don't really need lubes or anything like that to spice it up. Most of the time using different techniques can really make a difference. Don't always do it the same way. When giving a blow job, use your hand to massage the base of the penis while you're blowing him. Move you're mouth different ways, move you're tongue aruond until you find something that really satisfies him and keep doing it until you can feel his muscles contracting and then gently put pressure on the penis between ur fingers and that will stop ejaculation. Holding out on ejaculation can highten his arousle. Also, when giving a blow job, if you hum or moan, the vibrations from your voice box can give him a tingling feeling. so moan or hum and make sure you change pitches and volume to give him more pleasure.

  • When your limited to just sucking his penis there is only so many things you can do to change it up. Most guys will live just a slow easy sensual sucking and a bit of sucking and fondling of the nut sac and then take it like a woman down the hatch when he ejaculates into your mouth, but don't remove his penis. Let it linger in your mouth for awhile slowing and gently continuing the sucking. He will love it!

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  • try sucking him in non sexual situation like while he is watching the game at home

    dont ask him just unzip his pants and go to it he would love it

  • hahahaha awesome! suck, blow, take your nouth off before semen.

  • I guess. Hard to say until you ask what the question is. Message might be better.

    • Oops posted that in the wrong spot..

  • only that person can tell you better about this...because the pleasure differs from person to person!

  • u could have just searched ! this question has beed asked and answered a million times on this site !

  • honestly? SWALLOW.

    • Really? Did I need to list that?

  • Try under the tongue. And for hj s, try it while making out and you on top

    • Thats a new one. Thanks!

  • Always be enthused. Try sucking his balls more or licking his rear.. gross I know but a lot of guys really like it. Next time you see him don't say anything..kiss him and go down on him without a word spoken. It will surprise him and he will love it.

  • my boyfriend loves standing up next to the bed and me lying on my back on the bed. My head between his legs. It gets really deep and no gagging. He finds it amazing.