Do only black guys like this body type?

[Anonymous]

I'm 5'2. Extremely active in biking, soccer, and jogging. I've always thought I have hips, because my measurements are 34, 23, 34 until recently when my friends informed me I have a "boyish" body... they described me as looking like a girlish statue David. I'm slightly pear shaped. I have what has also been described as "huge" muscular legs and butt, but I only wear a size 1. And so yeah... I'm most often hit on by black guys or Hispanics. And no offense, but I'm attracted to white guys who usually date the tall girls with big boobs and skinny legs. Am I doomed to a body types only black guys like?

[Tigerlily]

Try this for pear-shaped - my measurements are 34-25-39. Each of my thighs is about the same as your waist. I always have to buy tops and bottoms in different sizes (I don't know what your US sizes are but I wear a UK8 on top and UK12 on the bottom, 2 sizes bigger) and generally can't wear dresses unless they flare out at the hips. If you can get into one size, you're probably not pear-shaped =P

I mostly get hit on by black guys, but I could also attribute that to the fact that I'm black/white mixed race so I get lumped in as black. Like you I'm mostly attracted to white guys (I don't think that should be offensive - you can't help who you're attracted to; it's not racist unless you're saying you wouldn't even talk to a black or hispanic guy/girl as a friend or something, in my opinion) and I can sometimes get overlooked as well. But not all white guys are into the big boobs/skinny legs shape. Lots are, yes, but not all. You're under 18 so you probably only socialise with guys around your own age who 1) are really shallow and 2) don't normally admit when they're attracted to girls of any other shape. As guys grow up they tend to be more open about what they're really attracted to and also less shallow about it. It can take them a hell of a long time, but some guys get to that point early. Some.

There's always someone out there. You just have to be patient, and I know that sucks, I hate hearing it too, but it's true =] in the meantime, work to be comfortable with yourself and your confidence will make you even more attractive to them.

[xBlossomx]

Oh dear.

You should not care about your friends say. You actually have a great hourglass figure (Small waist, Bust measurement the same as hip measurement). They are probably calling you 'boy-ish' because you're a 'small' hourglass. Your measurement are just small overall. I mean..compare them to my measurements (52-32-45 oh and I'm 5'1..>_<). I'm losing weight, but my waist will get smaller, but nothing else will (I need to get back to my 27 waist). I will look ridiculous *.*

You got a lovely figure and you should be happy :)! I don't know how tall you are, but your measurements would suit me good, but that's never going to happen. Bloody hips and breasts..

xBlossomx

P.S. My fiancé is white..

[Kattrain]

Hey! Just wanted to say (as a fellow runner and soccer player) that my thighs are huge. MY butt is big too. And no, you don't have a boyish figure. I'm 32-bust 25-waist 34-hips and that is what I call a boyish and pear figure :)

I don't know if guys find that attractive but, just wanted to say you are NOT alone! haha

[G-Daz]

I don't think its fair to say any one group of guys have one taste in women especially when it comes to races, its about as diverse in guys tastes as within a race. I actually find so many different body types attractive on women that its hard to really say their is one deffinitive type, but from what you described which is 'huge' legs and a big butt, I find that really sexy! I really love thick legs and thighs especially and large hips and a big butt is just a bonus lol. believe me there are plenty of guys that find your body type really sexy and they are white, I hate the stereotype that being a white guy means that were after stick thin model women because that's not for me, id much rather a girl thicker so don't give up hope its hot :P

[Anonymous]

ahhhh one more strike against me :(

After looking at a couple of questions from GaG it seems like girls find black guys unattractive :(



Well black and hispanic guys generally go after "thick" girls if you catch my drift with the curvy body. If you fit into that category then yea

[beans]

No way that you have a boyish body shape girl. It sounds like you are an hourglass, which is the most womanly shape there is. Your friends are envious. I have very smilar measurements to you, but I am taller and wear a US size 2. I have also been called fat by girls who wear like a size 6...jealousy.

[WeaponZero]

Sounds pretty much like my ideal body type actually. But I will admit that there's an intimidation factor there that white guys are more likely to give into than others, making them less likely to approach.