I'm surprised he's not already hard just from making out. Guys around that age are usually almost constantly horny anyways. He'll probably get one easily just from being near a woman he's attracted to (you).
Touching the inside of his thighs is a turn on. You can tease him by running your hand over his crotch. But be aware that it'll excite him and may cause him to want something more than you're ready for.
for the 121803th time, boners are not given by you, they are caused by you,
and no you can't control it.
How can I cause it then? what gives you a boner? when a girl looks hot or has big boobs?
Well, every guy is different, i can only talk abt me... i suggest you talk to ure guy and figure that out. (see what you got, and use it)
If kissing Jim doesn't work he's really not that attracted to you
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I do I just wanna do something sexier
As mf-ibmj said, you don't give boners, you cause them. And when you're cuddling, kissing and his hands are wandering like you said, he probably already has a boner.
He doesn't I checked
play with his d*** a little bit show him your t*ts wear sexy panties or a thong and tease him and the number one way to ensure he has a boner...unzip his pants pull his d*** out and star suckin
I hope you're kidding.
grab his balls then walk away
then do it again
theh pull his d*** out and stroke it a little the walk away
then make out. I can guarantee he will follow you around the house with a boner.
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