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Have you ever been groped in a public place (public transit, concerts, shopping etc)? Your worst experience?

What do you do when it happens? It happened to me before when I was shopping, on the concerts/events but not as bad as it happened this time. A man who was around 40-45 years old kept feeling my butt on the very crowded bus. At first, I thought it was just a bag/purse or something else brushing up against me. At one point not knowing that it was the man who was groping me I just turned my head and smiled at him. I wish I never smiled because It was probably a "yes" sign. Seconds later I felt how my mini skirt flipped up with his hand on my thigh. For the next 5 minutes his hand was under my skirt groping my ass. 10-15 minutes of disgusting experience. I was too embarrassed to say/do anything in front of my mother. :(
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  • Wow I'm sorry that you had to live through an experience like that, Karma is a bitch and that sicko will get what's coming to him sooner than you think. Next time something like that happens scream or call them out on it- you will see how fast everyone in the area will turn on him and rally to kick their ass :) No One likes a pervert.

    I can't say that I've had a really bad experience but I have been groped by total strangers- I have been called "bubble butt" by a few select girls for a long time now. Not saying I have a huge ass but I guess its round or whatever. The first time I was groped was in junior high school, I was standing in the hallway waiting for my next class and I felt a real hard squeeze- I swung around and this gargantuan of a girl was running down the hallway (Shudder). The second time was my old job (Charlotte Russe) and I did stock. I was up on one of those mini stairs because there was something I needed to get on a high shelf and one of my female coworkers grabbed my ass with both hands and felt me up for a good 2-3 minutes. Not complaining but I wasn't attracted to her in that way. The last time that I can remember was when I got into realestate and I was waiting at a bus terminal minding my business when I felt that familiar squeeze. Never got a visual on who did it though.

    It wasn't as bad as your experience and think of it this way- when that guy does get caught all the prison gorillas will be having their way with him... ewww but Karma lol

    :)

    • Haha, this is so cute bubble butt :) Yes it happened awhile ago and it was just a bad experience. I was just wondering if it have happened to anyone else. I bet I am not the only one and most likely that all girls and some boys have experienced someone grabbing their butt :)

    • Lol not you too... but it doesn't mean you can call me that :P Yea I'm sure it happens all the time- but I'm somewhat old fashioned when it comes to the treatment of women. ill be honest if I ever saw that happening to a woman... I don't know what I would do but I'd probably spend a few years in jail lol.

  • Yes, that guy is a looser, he went too far.

    Honestly, I groped an older girl's butt in subway when I was like 13 because I was stupid and I feel so ashamed and guilty now.

    Right now I might grope a girl's butt but ONLY in night clubs :) I doubt there are many people who wouldn't do it. Ladies did the same to me too.

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  • I've been groped so many times but I'll tell the story that happened today which isn't quite groping...

    I went to the beach with my best friend her boyfriend and 2 other guys. It was just a small public lake/beach to swim in. One of the friends that was there (me and him are friends with benefits at the moment) comes up behind me while we're all in the water and grabs both my boobs. I was fine with it at first...till he grabbed the edges of my top and pulled it down.

    Today my breasts were exposed to maybe 100 people. This includes horny 10 year old boys, old men, happy families, etc. I don't know how many actually saw but still, odds are some of them saw. All because my friend 'owed' the other guy and felt he could repay him by giving him a good look at my t*ts.

    The day also went on with my friends boyfriend and my friend with benefits ganging on me. They scream threesome and my friend holds my hands while the other guy is grabbing/groping my upper inner thighs because I'm extremely ticklish, It was all really weird and sometimes I consider finding for friends that are girls :(

  • Yea, in middle school my butt got slapped and once at an old job. I had one male co-worker who CONSTANTLY was making sexual comments and one day while I was bent over he grazed my butt with his hand...I tried to tell myself it was an accident, but I knew it wasn't...there was no reason for it to have been accidental considering the situation. I told my boss months later, but I was always afraid of him after that...anyone who is willing to break rules of public conduct might be comfortable breaking more...It's not right, but most of the time we just end up taking it out of fear and embarrassment.

  • Yah, once at lunch and my friends 13 year old brother has a thing for me or sumthin so he's always tryin to feel me up and makin sexual comments, he kept touching my legs while we were in there car and he kept tryin to grope me in sams club >.> makes me wanna throw up, no matter what I do the guy can't take the hint. I'm not ashamed or embarrassed but gettin' p*ssed and hittin' him upside the head doesn't work. So I usually just stay away

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  • OMG! You should have slapped him! Or called him out on it in front of everyone, embarass him, etc. Do something! Never let anyone do that sh*t to you! I hate when girls feel ashamed/embarassed to say anything because YOU SHOULD NEVER FEEL THAT WAY

    I'm sorry about that :( what a jerk

    • Yes, I should have done something. I just felt way too embarrassed in front of my mother and the longer I waited more ashamed I felt for not stopping it earlier. I was just hoping that no one would see it. If it was someone else but my mom I would probably make some noise and embarrass him.

    • Why? Your mom would BLAME YOU?? B/C if I was your mother, I'd punch him wtf? Take me to court... At this point, I suggest you stop thinking about it AND please remember to NEVER let this happen again...no matter whose with you; if you take action, then you are letting these dirtbags know that such actions are unacceptable (this is also for your own peace of mind).

    • Yes, thank you. I stopped thinking about it awhile ago. I was only wondering if any other girls were groped by men in public. Its a little complicated and hard to explain why I didn't do anything in front of my mom. I bet that many children don't feel comfortable talking to their parents about sex and relationships and vise versa. I am still a shy person when it comes to talk about these things.

  • I was walking by a group of dudes at a bar and all of a sudden I felt a hand full-on GRAB my buttcheek.

    I don't go to that bar anymore.

  • Yes, at a concert by my date. We had fun after the concert.

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