I threw up on my guy during a blowjob..

[ugogurl]

I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob and was getting really into it, but I went way to fast, gagged, and threw up on him. At first he was like ugh! But he kept saying it was ok we can just clean it up its fine. I was EXTREMELY upset, I even cried. He calmed me down, but the next night, we were kissing and he started off hard, but after kissing for awhile and about to give him head, his penis went soft. I knew he was thinking about what happened, and he said that it was OK we would get over it. I am SO upset and I don't know what to do. I have been reading online and one site said that it could take away from your sex life a little. I am so upset and is there anything I can do? He says he wants to be with me and it doesn't matter...but it COMPLETELY matters to me. I really want to please him.

[IceDude]

1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.

10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ----> link

Good luck

[l-hedoniste]

"it was ok we can just clean it up its fine."

"it was OK we would get over it."

"he wants to be with me and it doesn't matter"

He is working really hard to get past this, to be okay with it, to put it behind him--HELP HIM.

[sypo8402]

i am pretty sure he was just shocked when it happened and didn't know how to react, but if he says it is okay than it will be fine. If it wasn't fine he probably would not have let you give him another blowjob. just stay positive :)

[chiefnavarro]

hell get over it. this will only make you stronger together.

[hkygirl]

I agree and you can work past that point in your gag reflex with practice. when you feel like you're about to gag just hold it there for a few seconds then pull it out and repeat the process. I'm pretty sure I'd wait awhile before you start gagging on his penis awhile lol good luck though:)