Guys why do you grab a girl's butt?

[Anonymous]

Like while making out? I don't think its a bad thing I like it just wondering

[jdcpa]

Consciously or Unconsciously?

Consciously I guess because I want to grab her butt. Why? Because it triggers a release of endorphins, seratonin & dopamine that all make me feel good. Why? Because that's what my brain recognizes as one of the many signals of sexual attraction & pleasure. Why? Because it's a proxy for me to gauge for physical health. Why is that important? Because it implies positive things about either her genetics, or voluntary eating & activity habits. Why is that important? Because those are ideally things that I would want in my children (hence sexual attraction), and want in a partner I plan on spending the rest of my life with. Why? Because physically fit people are healthy, and healthy people have healthy sex drives, which means hopefully none of us will ever find the need to cheat on each other due to lack of sexual satisfaction back home. Why is that important? You know what, I've had enough of your sh*t, we're moving onto Unconsciously.

Unconsciously, I want to know that the person I want; also wants me. One of the ways the unconscious mind "unconsciously tests" for that, is to load my conscious mind up with reasons why I think I want to grab her butt. But in the unconscious mind, of the few reasons that exist, one of them is to test to see how receptive & comfortable she is with it. Is her reaction negative? Neutral? Positive? Even if she pretends she likes it or doesn't mind, the unconscious minds communicate honestly between each other through micro-signals (that happen too fast & subtly to be controlled consciously). So her body will either flinch ever-so-slightly, or her voice might change, or her facial muscles will tense, suggesting controlled facial expressions which suggest her trying to portray a mood other than the one she honestly & truly feels. All of that information is recorded and then processed by the unconscious mind.

That's why it happens.

[biannnnnnn]

WOW good answer!

[Chessy-27]

The question actually intrigued me so I texted a couple of my guy friends asking and these are the responses I got:

-"Cuz its 1 of the 2 peices of fat we really enjoy on your body and its much harder to grab your boobies while making out!"

-"Us bros wtch your bootys all the time and we dnt get how you mke thm swing side 2 side lke tht! we wanna grab it and find out bt da only way we can is whn smootchin."

-"...I LOVE IT!"

Haha. My friends don't use the best grammar but they sure are honest, right?

[chiefnavarro]

should I grab her hair how about her forehead