How can I get rid of my foot fetish?
A couple of weeks ago I was out with a friend from college and we were getting drunk and talking and stuff, and she asked me about sex and stuff. I... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
If it's something that you are into, and she is willing to go the "extra mile" to help, then why wouldn't you want to see her more. If she is doing this all just to tease and get things from you then drop her now. She will just continue to use you. But if this is something that can turn into a real relationship that is healthy, then I say keep with it. You really need to see what she says about some of this stuff. Ask her if a relationship is something she would be interested in. Like I said, If she isn't, then don't let her use you anymore. I promise there is someone out there who will be in a relationship with you and will give you what you need. I even bet they will let you continue with your foot fetish. They will love you for who you are. And you won't have to clean their room or do their laundry in order to get them to like you.
What Girls Said 2
Wow. She's playing you. Getting you hard and then you end up cleaning her room and washing her clothes while she watches tv? You like feet, you can't make a fettish go away. You can still go over to her place but grow a backbone and tell her no when she tries to do that sh*t. Stand up for yourself. Sounds to me like she's using your fettish against you, and that's not right. But only you can do something about it.
What Guys Said 4
"What can I do?" Ride it out, man; it gets no better than this.
"Does this mean I shouldn't see her any more?" WRONG.
"Or can I get her to go out with me and let me do stuff to her too?" Possibly. Give it time. Maybe she's working up her nerve, maybe she's just teasing. If things get stuck for too long, start dating around, tell her why, and let her make the call. Whatever you do, don't start sulking out of frustration--that just sours everything.
on another note I think you kinda like her contoling you because you set yourself up for it becasue you keep going to her house you know if you go she is gonna play with you
you can't get rid of a fetish
why would you want to do that