Is it weird that sexually, I want to be a girl?

[Anonymous]

Okay, I don't really know how to start this so I'll just cut to the chase: I often find myself - either whilst aroused or in order to be aroused - fantasizing about being a girl. I'm not just talking about having sex either, I mean the full shebang, just life in general. I'm not into guys at all (Although if fantasizing about actually having sex as a girl I... Let myself get carried away), and although I have tried dressing up I didn't really enjoy it (Apart from the bra, that was kuna fun :P). So with both of those things in mind I assumed it was just a fetish, but I have NEVER heard of a straight guy having this sort of fetish. So yeah, is it not unheard of, or should I be thinking a bit more about how I stand sexually, in your opinions?

[useranonymous]

There are fetishes out there like this. There is basically a fetish or sexual "deviance" for just about everything out there. It is definitely NOT unheard of (thoughts like these are beyond common). I really hope you don't take offense to this, but have you thought about seeing someone to talk to them about it? I'll try to clarify it by saying that you obviously seem to be confused about where you stand and you don't need to decide where you stand. There are miles of gray in life, nothing has to be black or white. The "seeing someone" comment was just if you really want to figure out where you stand and who you are to yourself, it can help you greatly. I'm receiving my masters in clinical counseling and honestly talking to someone who knows about these things really helps.

You're not weird, and you don't need to declare yourself as anything or anyone. I just hope that you figure out (for solely yourself) what you're trying to figure out and I hope that you can be comfortable with how you feel. You should never feel like you're weird because honestly, there's always someone out there doing much more f***ed up sh*t than the person before them.

[Asker]

Honestly, your first 3 sentences were all I needed. I know there is some messed up fetishes out there, and that's why I asked - I've heard of all kinds of disgusting stuff but not this. I don't enjoy anything about physically pretending to be a girl (Crossdressing etc) and I sure as hell don't like guys - so yeah, I guess I'm just kind of submissive when it comes to the bedroom and this is the way it manifested itself in my mind :/ Cheers, anyway

[Anonymous]

I have the same fetish and I know exactly how you feel. It is so hot and really turns me on however unlike you I only image myself as a girl doing sexual activities and having sexual activities done to me. It isn't that common but it is heard of and can be considered strange but don't sweat it.

I am straight by the way and enjoy sexual activities upon women

[Ali89]

Reading this story might help and give you encouragement.

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Its not weird, its just different.

[l-hedoniste]

It's called feminization/sissification. If you know femdoms (or any doms), they'll be able to tell you about it.

[Anonymous]

No, it's beautiful. i want to be a woman, too.