You show me someone without physical flaws and I'll show you a mannequin.
Sex is for everybody. The world would be a sad, sad place if only very attractive people could do it. In fact I think it's those little flaws that make sex worth having. It's a comforting thing to both partners ( I imagine - I'm a virgin) when they can see those little things they hate about their own bodies only to realize that the other partner isn't put off in the least by them. When you're fully naked and vulnerable and someone can accept you wholly and love things about yourself that you hate, then you're truly and fully connected, are you not? You no longer have anything left to conceal. You've made yourself vulnerable and you were treated with acceptance. What could be better?
But that is the paradox of sex. It can heal and hurt. When you make yourself vulnerable by having sex you risk the possibility of getting hurt. It's that possibility that makes it so great when it doesn't happened and your trust is repaid with love. If you get defensive you risk missing out on that sort of experience.
And by the way, guys say a lot things. Don't listen to them. It's quite often horsesh*t anyway. Some guys don't really know what they want, some guys don't know how to express it, some of them are just goofing around and some are just idiots. It p*sses me off when guys nitpick about stuff like that. I won't go into it here but I think that if a guy is grossed out by those little flaws then he doesn't deserve sex in the first place. All those things you mentioned shouldn't bother a mature man.
I've actually got tears in my eyes: that's the way it should be dude!!
WTF! That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Everyone deserves intimacy and passion, no matter what they look like, and beauty is in the eye of the beholder so you don't know what any given guy finds beautiful anyway. Let them worry about their love lives and you worry about your own.
I'm talking about my self you asshole.
That doesn't change the gist of my answer. It's still the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. No one is perfect. Everyone deserves intimacy and passion. Avoiding sex because you don't look like a Barbie doll is just punishing yourself for being human. That's insanity.
Whatever you are an ass
Oh my goodness! If men were as picky as that most of them would never have sex. Sorry but most of us woman are not a perfect 10 and neither are men for that matter! Of course Id love to say "I'm only gonna have sex with men who have 6 packs, good teeth, don't smoke and have a cute ass." But in reality my lucky duck is a fuzzy head, skinny, more hairy then I'd like boyfriend of 5 years. And I have my flaws too... but know what? He finds me sexy where I can't stand and I find him sexy where he doesn't feel sexy. Which is why I don't recommend just going out and having sex with just any one because yes they are probably gonna be a horrible critic to you. And you don't want to have sex with someone who just wants sex anyways! In less of course your one of those women who really don't care!
A person should have sex if they want to and are mature.
Cellulite:There are cosmetic procedures & lotions,although it's usually hopeless
Stretch Marks:Laser treatment,cocoa butter,bio oil
Long Labia:Labiaplasty
puffy nipples/big areolas/sagging breasts:Nipple reduction,areola reduction,breast lift
Of course not everyone can afford plastic or cosmetic surgery,so they could simply cover up during sex.Wear a bra during sex,turn the lights off,do it under the sheets where he doesn't have to see or look
I personally hate my breasts,I do want cosmetic surgery,but should the time come before I get it,I would just wear a bra during sex.
No they should not avoid sex. In the first place probably the only person on earth who gives a crap about any of that kind of stuff is the person with it, and at some point all of are going to see some of one or more of those things on our body. Someone is worrying way too much about inperfections to think like this.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!im pretty sure 95% of the population has something about them that just, isnt, perfect. You shouldnt be self concious, you gotta have confidence. And when you get to were a guy is seeing that part of you, it should be with someone that you love and trust enough to give your self like that to him.Saggy boobs and all.
So no. These girls shall not avoid sex.
no, instead of saying "i give up" fix yourself.
Haha not everyone can afford plastic surgery haha
Save money and in the meantime, diet, goto the gym, goto a dermatologist, ask friends about your style and work on being more approachable. Its not always expensive.
To broke people it's expensive lol I don't think doing the things you listed above helps the situations she listed...just saying
If the guy got far enough to being in the position of sex, not even a Russian nuke could send him back
honestly I don't think a guy cares that much unless there like total assholes. but no becuase most chicks have those kinds of things.. and if a guy truly loves you than he will look past anything trust me, I hate my body since I had my little girl and my boyfriend says I look great and the stretch marks and stupid brown line that hasn't gone away yet don't bug him at all.
Actually the are kind of cool...,
Whats kind of cool?
Anyone who would hurt you isn't worthy of having sex withyou. We all have something that bothers us about our bodies. It's part of being human.
well I am not the most attractive girl and I know that I am probably a turnoff to most guys which is why I don't have sex or date until I reach my goal weight...then if I look good enough I'll think about trying to date. people can say "be confident" all you want but lets be honest if you are unattractive you could have all the confidence in the world and men still won't like you
That's awful. For one you're probably not even huge. We have this twisted version of what pretty is and of what we think guys think are sexy. Not all men like girls who look like models, in fact most don't because those girls don't have very good attitudes. So what if you have a little extra meat on your bones, some guys like it. And just because you lose a couple of pounds it doesn't mean it will make you confident. Girls like that can always find something wrong with their bodies.
I actually agree.The whole "confidence" line is cliche and typical.Most people do not even take their own advice.Guys will take a "sexy" and "gorgeous" insecure girl over an "ugly" or not so attractive confident girl.It's all b*llsh*t :D Good luck on losing weight:P
Nope just turn off the lights, or turn them down, use positions that are good for whatever it is you are worried about...
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