He thinks I'm cute, but not sexy?

My boyfriend tells me how beautiful I am, but just a few minutes ago the conversation of sex got brought up. (we both think it wouldn't be smart for us at are age and have no intention of doing it anytime soon.) Still, he said I'm just so cute, but I'm the cuddly adorable kind and he can't even picture me "that way". That really shouldn't bug me but it does bug me a little. Like I said above, I have no intention of sex, still, is there anything I can do to make me look a just a bit more attractive in that way? (other then ways to dress. I already wear some pretty tight shirts and short shorts. Nothing slutty though.) Also, I just got a hair cut that people have been telling me makes me look either one or two years older. (considering the fact that I'm sixteen that is a good thing.) He hasn't seen me yet. Is their any chance that might help? Thanks to anyone who answers this, and also, I don't want to do anything extreme. I'm only looking for small stuff. (I don't want to risk changing anything to much) PS: This is my friends account and that is why the age is different then mine. (she says I have to write this or she won't let me use it)
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  • Well id say that sexiness is relevant to how you use your traits to attract your partner. He says your cuddly adorable cute, well in the case of being sexy, for some guys the innocent cute thing is super sexy. But if your looking for something else well try practicing a deep glance into his eyes and picture yourself in a sensual way like think caressing your body or soft long movements. Use a mirror for this. I think most of the sexiness is in facial expression mixed with slow caressing body movements. Now I say all this because as I read I think you don't really want to compromise yourself. But in case your looking for something more out there well, an idea would be like paint your hair some radical color. Go to the beach and get a tan. Heck I don't know what your man is into. Try various things to get his attention.

  • I think that since your not ready for sex (which is good at your age) he may just have the cute thing in his mind. This way he's not pushing you to have sex. When your older and ready for sex he may look at you differently. If he has never had sex either maybe it's hard for him to picture that. You two have had a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship and he still wants to keep that vision in his mind. If he really didn't think you were sexy would he still be going out with you? I'm sure that he does.

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  • i wouldn't say that looking older is the key I would just say look at the say the movie starts that he thinks are hot and see if there's anything that they have that you as well have and maybe you could play that up a little like for example if he likes angelina jolie with those big lips if he likes her try a lip plumping lip gloss or something

  • Honestly, cute is a good thing. I'd rather be cute than sexy in the long run. Because sexy fades out and becomes used to be sexy. Cute sticks. And when a guy thinks you are cute he holds you in high esteem, and tends to respect you more. Be proud that you are cute.

    • Thanks, I agree. I just have my weird moments where I wish he would see me that way. (I was having one when I wrote this) That is really good advice. Again, thanks. :)

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