Guys, what is the big turn on of watching girls touch themselves in front of you?

[Anonymous]

Why do guys like to watch? Wouldn't touching the girl yourself be more of a turn on?

[sa230e]

I truly love female masturbation. It's so very feminine and sensual the way a girl touches herself. It's also very personal. Masturbation is usually a very solitary thing. When you see it you know you're seeing a girl in her sexual element. You see what she does when she's alone and is unafraid to unleash her sexuality, engaging in any fantasy and technique that gives her the most pleasure without the pressure of having a guy in the picture.

Sex and masturbation are two different things. Sure a girl touching us is arousing but it has a different feel to it. Watching her touch herself is something separate but very enjoyable. Maybe it's a niche thing that only some people enjoy. I haven't heard many girls say they love to watch a guy masturbate but I personally think there's nothing in the world so beautiful as a masturbating woman.

[Ham_Kitty93]

I personally LOVE to watch my man touch himself. And he loves watching me touch myself. It kinda gets us in a really horny crazy (but good) mood.

[PilatesGuy]

There's no "best thing" when it comes to sex. There's only personal preference and context - in other words, what feels right for that particular person in that particular situation.

Sometimes, watching your' o/h Jill off is just right. Also, there's a teasing element to look but don't touch that can be very exciting. It's also exciting watching someone else give herself pleasure and have an orgasm.

Sometimes, often even, you'll want to touch the girl, but I don't eat the same food every meal - and I don't want the same sex every time I make love (although like everyone else I do have favourites, things I'm better at and so on).

[heatherlu]

I think it depends on the guy and the girl. I guess it's not a turn on for every guy either.

Some guys will use it as kind of like a learning curve; with an added bonus of seeing plenty of flesh - so they can see how you like to be touched, and how you best get pleasure.

Others just like to see a girl turned on herself, and enjoying herself.

I know some guys think it's hot that she feels open and comfortable enough to do that in front of him. She'll look vulnerable and wanton when she's doing it so it's bound to be a turn on.

And I'm thinking in most cases it's just a form of foreplay and will lead to the guy touching and more later; so it builds up the anticipation and desire; it's something to enjoy when you know there's promise of more - and you don't want to rush things.

[Ham_Kitty93]

Yes!! I agree 100%. My man goes crazy if I pleasure myself in front of him! And I find it a very BIG turn on watching him pleasure himself. I don't quiet understand why I like it. But maybe cause its because he isn't afraid to do it in front of me since a lot of men do it privately.

[stepx]

even for guys watchin something live for the first time with someone they know is a big turn on ! you start to imagine what you will do to her and listening to her moan is something quite horny even with the look of pleasure on her face ! boys just think about what he would do to her and while he masturbates, he feels more pleasure... its NATURAL

[Ham_Kitty93]

100% agree with this too.

[katiesmuff]

Certainly the touching us themselves is a bigger turn on for guys, but they still can get very arroused by watching us finger ourselves or use other devices on our pussies.

[silverpuma]

idk why. But guys just like to look at naked girls. lol. And I think when they see a girl get off it just kind of gets them all riled up and horny.

[Blue_Jay]

I can't explain it but its verrrrry hot watching a girl do that

[ManAmongBoys]

The only reason I can think of is to learn how she likes to be touched. Otherwise, I'm with you... I'd rather do the touching. Now, on a webcam or something, it may be different. But in real life, if touching is to be done, it's either MY fingers or MY c*ck. (Or tongue.)

[cjwright79]

The general idea is that if a girl is touching herself, why by Jove she must really be keen on you and yours. And that's a big turn-on.

[jackflynn7]

I enjoy watching a girl masturbate because I like seeing them experience pleasure. I also learn what they like and how they do it. Touching them is also a turn-on, especially with that learning. I very much enjoy watching a girl get off by my efforts.

[AM-205]

I believe it's something like this; As a man watches a cute girl masturbate, or fondle her breasts, the man's brain goes, "I think she seriously wants it! Look at her gratifying herself!" I think it's a signal the man receives telling him the girl is in the mood, so the man gets into the mood too so both are happy!

[Anonymous]

i suppose its kind of like watching lesbians make out or have sex..girls know what a girl wants. if you don't tell us how you want it..you don't get off..simple as that..so if we watch you do it yourself..then we get to see you get off.

[Anonymous]

It's visually stimulating and enjoyable to watch. Doesn't mean we don't enjoy being touched but variety and teasing are a great part of the sexual experience.