haha,I was just wondering.Every guy I talk to is automatically turned off by the fact that I'm a virgin ha ha so I pretty much have never had a boyfriend or have been kissed.Most of my guy friends say virgins make bad girlfriends and stuff.So why do guys hate virgins?Should I maybe lose it to a guy friend so I can at least not be a virgin?
wow I guess I am pretty much doomed to die a virgin then: ( I guess I could always get a cat ha ha
Well thanks everybody
WELL,I decided to have sex with the guy friend,we did it earlier,it hurt like f***,painful as sh*t & didn't feel good at all and it wasn't good,but at least I'm not a virgin anymore!Plus I had my first kiss,first bj,first time having sex all at once haha
Wow if you do loose it to a guy friend then he is the luckiest person I've met : ). Guys don't hate virgins trust me it really doesn't matter at your age now if your 30 and still a virgin that will definitely put a man off but at your age it doesn't matter. However at your age a lot of guys are stupid :). Here is what virgin means to a guy ages 15 - 25, you are a virgin therefore you are prude, not going to put out, wanting to go on dates for a long time before we have sex, I have to handle you carefully, you might become clingy, you must suck in bed, it all comes down to 2 things. If your a virgin the stereotype is it will be very hard to get into your pants and afterwords you will be extremely clingy. Now this can go 2 ways if a guy is for lack of a better term, "nice" he will actually want this because it means you are faithful and you won't cheat on him, annnndddd he can tell his buddies that the reason he hasn't had sex with you yet is because your a "good" girl. This all relates to something else and its the biggest hurdle for a lot of girls including my girlfriends. You have to understand that men are absolutely 100% no doubt about it never will change SEXUALLY DRIVEN. The earlier women accept this the easier time they will have understanding men, we are visual not emotional. We are attracted to girls with nice asses not nice personalities (at least at the beginning of a relationship of course we care about personality but I'm talking about initial attraction here). So you can see how you fitting into a stereotype that says sorry no sex will turn guys off. I hope this helps sorry it was long but I wanted to be thorough.
I certainly don't hate virgins and id deffinitly not be held back in dating one based on that, nothing against women who arn't virgins but I find it highly admirable when a girl decides to stay a virgin and I have a lot of respect for them knowing that they are choosing to save themselves for a special guy. I think to be the eventual guy that you decide to give it up to would (depending on the guys outlook) make them feel really special to know that you decided to give it up to them.
Alot of the time, guys that don't like virgins don't like them because there interested in a quick fling and not a long term committed relationship, they are put off because they don't want to worry about the relationship aspect, are these the type of guys your aiming to be with?. To have sex with a virgin generally means the guy would have to commit to them and be close. Not something that a guy who just wanted sex would be willing to do.
I say congratulations for not just giving it straight up, save it for a guy that means something to you and not just a random hookup with a freind. There are plenty of guys that think a girl that is a virgin is not a turn off at all including me. You have nothing to worry about but make sure its your decision and not the influence off someone else. Good luck :P
Not all guys hate a virgin, but yea most guys don't like them.
Several reasons, most virgins we come across are not going to be easy, where we can just ask for sex and get it.
Most virgins, you have to "talk" them through it. Tell them it's okay. She will ask will it hurt? Are you going to go easy? 20 questions ya know, after taking "the quiz" as we call it we're not even in the mood anymore.
Second, virgins can and are clingy 95% of the time. Sleep with one and take their virginity and they are all over you, calling you all the time, etc.
So to avoid all of that, most guys just avoid virgins all together.
Understanding you are too young and should wait until you are 18:
We don't. It's just that you are more likely to say "no" and not know how sex is done. But a guy looking for long term love will consider you a blessing. The idea of "raising" a lover (a "keeper") in sex is very appealing to the man you should want. Wait a while, though.
guys don't hate virgins, and the reputation for virgins as being bad gf's is ridiculous, and don't loose your virginity because some dumba** high school boy said he doesn't like virgins loose it when you want to, whether in high school college or when your married at least loose it when your in love cause its the best feeling in the world, and do not deny yourself that because of some guy
Not all hate vigins I personally like it more but getting older not to many virgins anymore for me. untammpered with and safe. If you held it for a long time don't lose it to a nobody make it worth your wait. Trust me I've had girlfriends 18 1 years old and lot it to a chump hey regretted it
Well there are a couple things that guys not technically hate but are kinda scared to be with a virgin. The first thing is the fact of clingy. A lot of girls get clingy and kinda devoted to the guy that takes her virginity. The other thing is most girls not all soon after they lose it then they kinda go on a sex craze and end up cheating or just start to sleep around. So its not that we hate virgins its that they are more complicated than girls who aren't.
The guys who don't like virgins are generally the kind who just want to bone you and then leave. Usually when a girl loses her virginity to a guy she feels a strong attachment to them, and a guy who just wants to get laid doesn't want to deal with a girl tying him down like that. Most guys I've talked to about it haven't had a problem with dating a virgin, because they want an actual relationship and an emotional bond, not just sex. You're not doomed to die a virgin; you just haven't met the right guy yet.
Don't do something you don't want to do trust me hun, I'm a virgin too and guys that I know find it a turn on, those guys you know are just probably looking for girls who are freaks but someday you'll be ready to loose your virginity and make sure its with somebody you love, because not all guys are the same. Don't pay any attention to them.