Don't worry about him trying to play tough, if you're hurting his man parts he will let you know immediately.
When someone, (or anything for that matter) sits on a guys lap the thighs support the weight, unless he has an erection the penis will just lie there safely between his legs.
As for lying on top of him, well it really depends on positioning, but for the most part it should be fine.
Hes always hard around me- THATS why I'm worried lol
It is just not a problem with a girl sitting on your lap. because you are sitting on the guys legs and they are slightly higher than his stuff. If he is hard you will notice it but I doubt any guys would put up with pain in that area.
Dont worry I am sure he would soon tell you if its a problem
Hes always hard around me- THATS why I'm worried lol -
Well if he is always hard when you sit on his lap sit down carefully. And ask him if he is OK when you are sat down. It is very nice to have a girl sit on your lap. So he is probably enjoying it a lot more than you think!
Ok I just can't help feeling like I could break it..i mean how do you avoid that
Why ask the question if all you're going to say is he's always hard around you.I doubt he is always hard around you,you can sit on your lap,he would tell you if he was uncomfortable.A guy will say if he is uncomfortable.
:) I asked because I was curious, I've never thought about it before & I was wondering how its possible.that it does not hurt.....guys said if he's SOFT its OK, so I specified. ......i meant when I'm ON TOP of him he's hard not always -always- and why does that bother you anyways....its still the same question what do you care if I say it I a stupid way . btw if you checked my update instead of trying to insult me- u'd see I corrected the WAY I put it ;) have a nice day*
Then common sense says don't sit on his lap
Noooo that's NOT what the guys were saying- do you have a dic*? this is why I asked " but he's hard....lol " thing that You thought was so absurd..I wrote it that way, because I was shocked, because guys said it was ok- but soft ,THEN they said hard was OK too. You see, exactly what you are doing now-- that is what I was trying to avoid . THATS WHY I ASKED instead of relying on your 'common sense' ..because I do not have one- clearly my common sense was not sufficient,.
Omg I have though about that so much! cause my guy friends always pull me ontop of them if were at a bonfire. I usually will hold myself up with my feet, so like squatting lol.
Lol He's always hard around me- THATS why I'm worried lol - if it was soft I' d not be so concerned. :) must be a pain having to worry about it - it actually lol
Lol when I told my friend that I am worried about hurting him, he laughed at me lol. then he pointed out I am 100 soaking wet, and the only way I would hurt him is if my boney ass dug into him.....now I worry about my boney ass diging into him lol
Me too exactly same lol 95 maybe lol
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!a. It doesn't have any bones, so it's hard to severely damage
b. If he's not totally erect then it's not going to be a gigantic problem
c. If it is an problem he'll make a fuss
d. You can always make room in your butthole or your burgina.
Hes always hard around me- THATS why I'm worried lol - & I'm not having sex but thanks for the suggestion :)
Maybe if he's always hard you should break his d*** wif your big tubby mass!
Gross & I'm skinny lol :)
Dont worry. You won't hurt it. It does not have any bone. If at all, you might hurt him in the balls if they get positioned oddly. But before you know, he will jump and shout.
Hes always hard around me- THATS why I'm worried lol -
Women have so much space where they can accomodate the penis. So don't worry. He would love it and if it is hurting, he will adjust it himself.
Holy sh*t! How many times are you going to say: "Hes always hard around me- THATS why I'm worried lol."
No I pasted it because they al said the same thing..but I only laughed once ..the rest were duplicates ye I know it looks annoying wish I could take it back but I cant. :) hey how come you are p[ink & blue-- how'd you do that ? yea I guess I should have said 'what IF he is very hard.oh well heh
Lol. If you were going to put it in a comment on every single damn answer it would've been better to just put it in an update, which I see you have done. Good for you. I'm a guy but I saved the picture of an anonymous answerer and set that as my icon.
(icon ) Clever heh :) & yea I really was sort of shocked at the responses. I did not mean it like : 'oh but he's so damn attracted to me that he's just rock hard alllllllll the time" ..... it was more just " But HOW can it NOT hurt ?!?" kind of thing. ......See umm, I don't know much about the mechanics- I've never owned one before :)
i never does ! relax...the penis is not that soft :) it's OK even if he has a boner, it will not brake or anything...besides, your kind of sitting in his thighs not on the penis, either ways it doesn't hurt that much !
Hes always hard around me- THATS why I'm worried lol -
What'ya mean hard ?
Hard like umm I guess erect?
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