Give him a great blow job!
Hey, I'll give you a few tips.
1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.
2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.
3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.
4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.
5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.
6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.
7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.
8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.
9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.
10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.
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Hmm well if you're both so happy now after of 9 months going together, and you think your boyfriend is so amazing why would you want to change that? He's already making sure you're always satisfied, and I'm sure he's 100% satisfied too with whatever you guys are already doing. Just leave well enough alone and don't turn around something that's already very fulfilling to both of you. Wait unit you notice something starting to not be right. You don't need more sexual variety to make a good relationship better. You're not married anyway so the no sex thing is great. What do YOU think he deserves that he's not getting right now? What do YOU think is missing in your relationship? Only YOU can answer that one. Why not YOU ask him what you could do to improve your relationship if you think that's needed?
Hmm I don't think anything is "needed" per se to improve the relationship :) I guess we're both happy and reading everyones answers helped me decided that there's nothing that needs to be done and why possibly ruin a good thing so. thanks everyone!
Well sex would certainly be a nice thing to do, but I understand if you don't want to do that. If you're okay with doing other things, then I would suggest a blowjob. Pamper him, do it well, and act like the one place you want to be in the whole world is right there, sucking his dick. Make sure that he cums, and make sure that you let him do it wherever he wants to. He'll totally love it and if he's as great as you say, and willing to wait on a virgin, he deserves some good head.
Do what ever you feel comfortable doing. You know that you do not need to reward your boyfriend sexually but if you want to there are plenty of things you can do. Strip tease, lap dance, massage, go away for the weekend. Give him something to remember but you don't have to go the whole way. Your boyfriend sounds like a dream.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Just do the same in return for him, put him first above everything else. You can wait to have sex.
If you don't want to have sex with him then don't. You can give him a massage, cook him dinner, dress in a sexy manner, etc. Men are pretty easy to please.
You haven't had sex yet. Does that mean you're waiting, or it just hasn't happened yet? Because this would be a good place to pull out the stops if you're comfortable. But if you're not, then WaitingAtTheDoor's suggestion is brilliant.
yea. you don't have to have sex until you feel its right. and you dont want to regret it.
but you should return the favor. stay faithful. don't fight with him. try to meet him halfway. make sure you communicate your problems and get it fixed rather than have it muddle up in your mind. if its perfect, let it stay perfect.
dont let sex ruin a good thing. but if he asks for sex, then tell him ure not ready unless you are. and then the sex will be great. you don't want someone to leave you and then think "Oh shit I miss him so much cos it was so good. but then we had sex and he lost interest"
if you want him that much, just stay faithful to him! that's what's most important.
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