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If your girlfriend asked you for oral sex would you go down on her?

I'm not experienced,I've only been with 1 guy,my bf.My boyfriend and I have sex regularly like everyday,and I always give him BJ's cause he really enjoys them.Well I would like to try oral sex but he won't go down on me.It's like my biggest fantasy,to receive oral sex but it's just one of those things you fantasize about but doesn't happen.I've tried the shower head trick,I use vibrators an this suction thingy and fake tongue so I have substitutes. But I'm asking other guys if your girlfriend asked you for oral would you give? I have asked already but he said no and I'm bare downtown
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  • If your boyfriend is timid of oral sex, then I wouldn't expect it to fulfill you're fantasy.

    I always wanted to go down on my girl because she would always go down on me. I felt like it was somewhat necessary so we can both benefit. Although, it was quite opposite, I was the one doing the asking and she was denying.

    She denied because people in the past have done it wrong and it wasn't good. It could be the same with him, in that he failed to deliver or he doesn't like it or he is just scared. You can't force him into doing it, unless he is that type of guy.

    I forced myself by putting myself in the position, where I was playing with my girl's clit and licked the clit down to the vagina. Where I did penetrate, to be honest it was salty and musty. Must of been the sex we had before we went to sleep (we did this in the morning). So, make sure you can prep it up, so an experience like that won't close the door to your boyfriend giving you a fulfilled fantasy.

    Also, try convincing him. Put him into position like I did. Perhaps try a 69 position where you are giving him a bj and you tell him to just blow on your vagina/clit and play with your clit. Putting him in that position more then one time could make him feel comfortable, in which you can proceed to ask him after like 3 sessions of that.

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  • IF it was me, hell yes, but it depends on a guys sexual prefrences. Don't pressure him cause he may change his mind. And if that's not his cup of tea let it go. All relationships have to be able to compromise, ask him to try it once and if he hates it he can stop. But if it where me in his shoes id go down in a heart beat. Just remember to wash properly, and that goes for guys & girls.

    • I've only asked twice.I asked while in the shower and the first time we had sex.I don't bug him about it,he doesn't think it's masculine so I don't.Thanks though

    • Wait, he thinks oral sex isn't masculin? What the f***? How the hell is it not? that makes zero sense. Well I guess its his choice. Have you asked him to at least try it? That seems like a stupid excuse, " Its not masculine" no offense.

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  • Everyone has a preference,some guy do not like performing oral sex on girls,I think most can live with doing it,not their favorite thing to do,not their least favorite.

    People are going to say withhold sex,but I disagree,that is unhealthy to do so,not to mention it won't make you any less "selfish" on your part.No one should be guilted or manipulated into performing oral sex.

    I think guys tend to be pretty open about pleasing their partner,so most would do it,but of course you have the others who refuse to do so.You can either dump him or live with it.I wouldn't let a guy go down on me personally,but oral sex being your fantasy,I do think it is pretty lame he can't or refuses to satisfy such a small fantasy

    • I won't withhold,but thanks

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  • I answered this for another woman as well. I prefer to give rather than receive, I truly enjoy going down on women and pleasuring them. And since you say you are "bare downtown" I'm guessing that means you shave that area, so it would be even more enticing to guys like me, but then, not every guy is like me :) Hope this helps!

    • I wax completely bare.Thanks

    • Well, I would think that would make a difference, but I guess everyone has different tastes right?

  • My girls have never, ever had to ask, but yes, I would.

  • She wouldn't have to ask.

  • I let it be known up front and early on that going down on her is something that she NEVER has to feel like she has to ask for. She knows that without that I love doing that for her and okay...for me too. Your man needs to cowboy up and get to work on making his woman happy or someone else will.

  • Yea that sounds real messed up sinice you give him bjs and he won't return the favor. Maybe you should stop til he does it for you. I know I would go down on my girl. I love doing that. She doesn't have to ask me for that.

  • Yes, I love going down on my girlfriend and do it every time we have sex. Seems pretty selfish to me that he won't give you oral even though you always give him bjs.

  • Of course! and boy, does she enjoy :-)

  • Man this guy sounds like a jerk! Myself I like giving oral sex because I LOVE recieveing it as well and if it feels so good for me, then it probably feels very good for her and I want to share that oral sex pleasure.

  • Absolutely, I always go down on her everyones different there is something she wants I won't do, but oral I enjoy.

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