yeah but it's gonna hurt regardless. The first guy I slept with was a thick 8-9 inches and it hurt like hell. I know that's probably not helping with your fear but no matter what it's gonna hurt, but it doesn't hurt the whole time
prolly yes if its your first time.. you may also bleed too.. and be swollen if your not use to it... I am not a virgin and I had sex with my friend and he was 91/2 so he was pretty big too... we had to use Lube tho because I was really tight... which it worked.. and if he foreplays with you it will help get it in easier. best of luck!