what should you do if you accidentally hurt your boyfriend's testicles?

[Anonymous]

It has become a real issue between us & am scared it is threatening our relationship. We were fooling around & wrestling on the beach & I fell on top of him & hurt his balls.He was hurt badly & was sort of moaning & rolling on the floor for a long time. I felt terrible & sort of panicked,but nothing I did seemed of use so in the end I just sat there feeling useless & stupid & so bad. He's OK now.The pain went after a few days & he got checked by a Dr but things have gone bad with us.He's really hurt & angry about it.He says I should have known to be more careful in the circumstances as guys are very sensitive there but mostly he's hurt & upset because I was so cold & unfeeling at the time & did nothing to comfort him. I really love him & am scared this might break us up. What should I have done & what can I do now?

[38rakia38]

He sounds like a little whiney baby to me...but men love their balls...

I've accidentally hit my partner in the balls (hard I might add), and yeah he flipped out like a little baby and upset me (very hard to do but it happens). Eventually we both calmed down and he realized it was accidental, so we both apologized (me for hitting his family jewels and him for flipping out over it).

If he's so dense he can't realize it was accidental, then he's not worth your time, whether he's the love of your life or not.

If you guys can manage to talk it out, explain to him that you were panicked and didn't know what to do and if he can't understand that, then f*** him.

[Asker]

I think I've mislead people.He knew it was accidental & accepted that.It was my seeming lack of sympathy or assistance & emotion he is p*ssed off about.I think Hotcake has given me some ideas.Any more suggestions Hotcake.

[Bsnska]

Does it make you a baby that you cry like a baby when u give birth?

[Anonymous]

You did all your could. I'm not trying to diminish the fact that he was hurt but it sounds to me like he's really making a big deal out of this when he should just get over. (That's the long way of saying he's acting like a spoiled brat.)

Remember it's not necessary to even have a boyfriend. It is much less complicated at your age. Enjoy your life, make some good academic choices, set yourself up good for the future. You never know who you'll meet farther down the road and it would be sad to be with a looser when you met mr. right.

[RavinJade]

Unfortunate fact by the time you graduate from college with your glorious career degree. Your looks have already started to fade... that mean if you want to be successful and not lonely like so many feminists in their 30's and 40's competing with 20 year olds. Finish your degree then start on the degree of landing Mr. right. I assure you he won't just fall into your lap magically.

[Opinion Owner]

Wow RJ....I think of it this way...there are men out there who appreciate a nice looking woman with a good head on her shoulders. That sort of man would be much more stable and less likely to play games in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

Just explain to him that you didn't mean for it, and that you legitimately did not realize his balls were so delicate. Not having a pair, it's constantly astounding how vulnerable the testicles are.

[DieselTech]

Just talk to him about it, it was an accident. His fault for not protecting his nuts in the first place but oh well lol. All you can do is explain what was going on inside your head and that your sorry. If he really does care for you he won't dump you because you drop kicked his nards lol

[Asker]

Thanks Diesel.He accepts it was an accident but fells I should have shown more concern & sympathy.He thinks I'm a coldl fish

[DieselTech]

Lol well like they said up there, he' a guy, he needs to get over it. Lol if I landed on my girls boob, she would uppercut me in the jaw, and then I'm forgiven xD

[CaliSoccerFella]

If a single accident like that will break you up... then I don't think he could handle actually issues that present itself in the future. Guys get their nuts smacked, hell today I smacked my own balls carrying boxes...

It happens, he needs to get over it

[centrestriker]

Tell him to man up. Yeah it hurts get over it. If he breaks up with you over that, that's incredibly weak and he's not worth it. Most guys would have seen that you felt bad and played down the pain in order to try and spare your feelings.

[hotcake]

ya ,i also had the same situation during my school days ... I unknowingly hit his nuts..he was screaming badly and the best first aid I think is to hold his nuts firmly make him comfortable

[Asker]

Thanks Hotcake.Any other suggestions. Were you as paniced as I was?

[matthew88]

That's serious. You could make him sterile and impotent. There are more fun ways to wrestle with him. Try sitting on his face and grinding. That's fun for both!

[Maxemeister]

U should like gently feel up his dick, make him feel better, smooch it, treat it like it's a baby's boo boo. Lol I had a fantasy like that where a girl hurt my balls but then she calmed my pain by massaging it and calming the pain.

[Seppelson]

You could roll them very gently between your fingers. I heard it helps against the pain

[1ryan117]

If it was an accident then just say
u were in shock didn't know what
to do at the moment. If he doesn't
understand then tell him to f**k off

[Jkl69]

Women don’t have balls - so you’ll never know how much it hurts. “Suck it up” lol. I’d dump your ass. If a guy accidentally hit you hard in the boobs you burst out in tears. I’ve seen it happen. I think your attitude comes down to penis envy.