Do you like rough sex?

Question

How many girls like to get f**ked really hard? What about orally?  Like with your head hanging of the side of the bed and getting throat f**ked?Do you like rough sex better than slow passionate sex?

Tigerlily · Accepted Answer

Throat-f***ing is highly dependent on the girl's gag reflex and general sensitivity. Even if you've got a girl who can deep-throat normally, in that case she's in control and can steer you away from any sensitive spots or slow down if she has to or whatever, even if it's only by fractional amounts that you may not notice. Bear in mind that throat-f***ing is also much more aggressive in general - if you want your girl to hurl all over you, that's definitely the way to do it. Definitely don't go there unless you KNOW she can handle that - and not just her telling you all about how much of a p*rn star she is in bed, if she's saying that she probably just likes you and wants you to like her back (that or her friends are total prudes and when she told them she sometimes goes on top they were all shocked). You're moving according to what feels good to you, but you could be hitting her windpipe and stopping her from breathing or repeatedly hitting her gag reflex or anything, and you won't know until she starts turning blue or throwing up. Some will love it, but only if they physically can.

As for rough sex - loads of girls do. But not all, and not all the time. Depends on the girl. Personally I think a mix of both is good, depending on our moods or whatever. Also a mix of both in the same session - if you're straight up hard and fast, we're probably not in the mood or anything and we're not gonna get anything from it. Speed doesn't really do it for most girls - consider that if you're using long slow strokes, you're actually spending more time rubbing up against her and giving continuous movement than if you're just playing jackhammer. So we get more feeling out of it. If you're gonna go fast, you definitely gotta work her up more first - that or be sure you've got a girl who's mentally turned on by it. Really just depends on the girl, the guy, their relationship (I think I'd find it a little weird if I'd been sleeping with a guy for a week and he was all lovey-dovey with me) and their moods.

Fourkaitlyn · Accepted Answer

For me, the rougher the better. You can use me in whatever way you want to, however you want to, if your my boyfriend and I love you and also if I can trust you to not take it too far and disrespect me. Disrespect me and I'll mess you up.

I enjoy getting f***ed roughly, like hair pulling, slapping, pinching like that. Oral sex, he can f*** my mouth until I feel like I'm about to puke because of my gag reflex.

I can't say which I like better too much because both can have there ups and downs. The rough sex is really fun and "dirty" (which I like) but it also can be taken too far. Passionate sex can be extremely intimate but it can also (this is how I feel) people you love should experience this type of sex with me, because it is intimate and all. Ya know?

Annon1 · Accepted Answer

I don't like it rough orally, that just makes it difficult to breathe.

I like sex a little rough, but nothing that hurts too much. I prefer fast to slow, though I think it's best to mix it up though and keep it interesting.

joraz · Accepted Answer

My Girlfriend likes it rough and really gets into it.  She likes her hair pulled, and sometimes she likes me to choke her (not all the time).  We also like to make love...slower...passionate...eyes locked on each other...lots of kissing.  There is a difference between ths love making and Fucking.  But, we like it all.

hesaysim2sexy · Answer

yes I like it rough but not hardcore to the point I'll be crying. lol...i don't mind throat fcking but not too hard tho. lol. or else il puke

jessikaelise · Answer

Who doesn't like rough sex, sometimes slow is is ok... but when your giving oral most guys don't want there d*** orally loved so "throat f***ed" is not so bad

lelebear · Answer

I like the rough stuff better then the slow sweet stuff.  It is really the only way I orgasm.  However I don't like to be throat f***ed at all.

jessicagomez · Answer

depends in what mood I'm in lol... but mostly I love it rough... the rougher the better... and the throat f***ing I like that also.. and I have tried it like you said head at the edge of the bed... did it twice and I liked it