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Why are women so easy now?

And I mean like easier than ever. This is certainly not one of those anger posts cause I find it quite funny sometimes.I think that its impossible to be a virgin these days if you absolutely don't want to be cause some people are so easy now. I'm one of those guys that enjoys a good chase or something letting you know that the girl is worth being with, nothing against the players or whatever but that's just my style. Thing is that I remember a time when girls made you work a little which made the relationship between the two more intense when we finally got together. You would have to put in a little romance and dedication but now chicks throw you sex just for being nice, giving them a ride to work or the store, cause you got them some Mcdonalds or burger king, gave them some quarters for laundry. I mean damn it could be any little thing and they will just open up. I mean what happened? how did it go from like 30% of people being like this to like 85%? (just guessing) but you get what I mean. Am I the only person feeling like this?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Girls want sex and guys want sex and girls know guys like girls who make is easy for them to get in their pants. They're the ones that are getting laid all the time...I'd like to get laid all the time but I don't have a boyfriend and I don't wanna be called a slut. Not all girls are like that but I've never heard a guy complain about not having to work too hard in order to get laid. Both the guy and the girl get the same things out of it but the guy doesn't get called slut afterward. So the rest of us that aren't getting called sluts have to wait until you guys are done having sex with all the sluts and are ready to settle down with one of us. I wish that I didn't have so many hangups about casual sex and being called a slut because if I didn't I probably would be a slut, I'd love to get laid as much as guys do.

    • Outstanding answer. I never thought of it that way.

  • heyyy mr. pennsylvania, lol I was just browsing for recent questions and I saw yours' :)

    Anyways, hmmm, about this... wow, you're now one of those few guys I know that who has that attitude/belief or thinking. And hey, that's very nice to knoww! :)

    It's good to hear again someone is believing in, that love takes time, and its not a game like, an easy thing to win, if you want to have it, or... something like that thought..

    Don't worry, hmmm I believe there's still many women out there who thinks just like you do :)

    • Why thank u, :) I like that nickname, its cool to hear that there're girls out there that are not like this but unfortunately I am surrounded by so many that are lol

  • There's no longer such an intense stigma against sex before marriage. It's not often seen as this taboo thing that might kill you. In some ways this is good but in other ways its bad, imho. I think premarital sex is OK, but some people, like you said, are too easy. On the other hand, it's great that sex isn't seen much as a sinful or bad thing, but as something positive and wonderful that people want to experience.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I have no idea what you're takling about. A few days from now I'll be a 23 year old virgin and that's definitely not by choice. If only 't was as easy as you make it seem.

    • Well it kinda is. do you even talk to females

    • I can see where you're coming from my friend but honestly tell me, do you have standards when you look for women? Cause if you have absolutely none then you could lose your virginity before the end of next week

    • I have the social skills of a brick :p

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  • The media glorifies womenwho sleep with jerks/criminals to get ahead or have status, and by Jove, a lot of women now think that's the thing to do!

    • Yea I agree

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  • Well I'm certainly not like that, I've only ever had sex with guys I was in relationships with.

    I think this is not just true for girls, guys are even easier than girls. Us girls don't even have to do anything for a guy to try and have sex with us, how easy is that?

    • Women who do stuff like this gain respect and I hope more remain like this and yea I stated that lol we all know guys have been whores for centuries

  • this is how it looks from a girl's head: nice guy, get him before someone else does! I don't recall any guy ever chasing any of my friends. just it doesn't happen anymore. feel free to start a movement.

    • Yup damn right I'm gonna start a revolution. But you get what I sayin right? I don't mean to insult women in general but I love a good chase and I have met few girls worth chasing lol but I know guys are mainly to blame for it

    • "Nice guy. Get him before someone else does." Except the guy turns out to be some asshole who just wanted sex and always will want sex, and dumps the girl after she sleeps with him.

  • I am definately NOT like that. I am a virgin and proud of it. I'm waiting till I get married:)

    • Same

  • The term " easy" implies women have no sexual needs, and only have sex to please men, get attention or gold dig. The term is actually annoying and assumes women
    are sexually unresponsive unless they have some ulterior motive.

    Would help if people stopped believing stereotypes and realized these assumptions
    are false and based on quicksand.

    Maybe everyone is too "easy" and have no discretion.

  • i personally would'nt have sex with a guy just for being nice to me, there would have to be more than that, as in trust and affection :s

  • i would say its because most women don't want to have a husband and kids anymore. so there is not reason not to be easy anymore.

    • Damn that actually makes sense or either they already have like 3 kids because they started real early

  • I think it's because girls are not as passive as they used to be, but still the majority expect us guys to initiate everything

  • Some women are easy, but the majority aren't.

    Being easy is slutty and asking for an STD, pregnancy, what have you.

    I'm a virgin and I'm staying that way until I'm in a serious, committed relationship. I'm not asking for marriage. Just for love.

    Good luck.

    • I would say the majority are easy and some arent

    • I didn't and wouldn't.

    • I definitely don't think the majority are easy.

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