Does he only want me for sex?

Question

this guy is actual my best friends cousin one day he came over and we met each other we were young like 12 13 but anyways we went out for like 6 months but then like 1 year ago when I hit 6th grade and me and him were in the same yard but across the yard everyday I caught him and his friend staring at me I ignored him but then on summer we talked on text every few days and one day we were talking sexually he told me a few time things like I got a boner or your cute and things like that then and few months later he said to come over because he misses me so I said okay me and his sister were hanging out for a few hours until she left he got up and said I'm scaring the dogs and we had a good laugh but then he grabbed my breast I kept slapping his hand away but he kept on grabbing when he let go he said he has a huge boner and told me to go to his room me being a stupid ass I went and when I entered he grabbed my waist and we fell on his bed me on top off him he kissed me and said what I wanna do I said whatever and told him to take his pants off I gave him a blow job when I was done we played video games for like an hour when I left I went home but then 9 weeks later he invited me over again because he said he was lonely so I did we watched t.v for like 15 minutes until he said for me to sit next to him so I did he said that he was hard because he liked the way I sucked his **** like 5 minutes later so I said I don't care he said for me to beat his **** I said no he kept saying please so I said later then he french kissed me and I kissed back he touch my area and I moaned he took his pants off and bended me over to suck his **** so I did he kept staring at me when I was done we watch t.v in silence so that was like a few weeks ago and here I am now I just wanna know what does he want from me because I do believe he only wants sex but I do really like him so my emotions take over me

Vendrix · Accepted Answer

He's totally using YOU. And the fact that you will eventually do what he's wanting sexually if he keeps trying. Grabbing you, telling you he's hard, etc etc.

You need to stop letting him take advantage of you. When you say No. Mean it. Don't let him persuade you otherwise.

My Girlfriend was also a victim of abuse as a child. She was extremely sexual when I first met her because that's how she felt she needed to be in relationships for them to like her. I helped her (well council ling mostly) to realize that sexual acts are symptoms of the abuse.

Please, don't let this continue. Stick up for yourself and try and find some help.

Hell, talk to me if you can't find a councillor or ask a question for advice from girls who've been abused here, there are more than you know sadly enough. BUT DON'T KEEP THIS UP.

Pwnfrnzy · Accepted Answer

Sorry to say, but I think he only ants you for sex. What I'm reading here is he asks you to come over and then starts bugging you about sexual contact. It's your choice with what action you will take against this.

rennon123 · Accepted Answer

RUN! hahaha  nah but seriously.. I know you like him.. but if you don't feel comfortable doing it.. then for your own comfort.. and safety..  don't do it :)