Am I too loud? Guys do you prefer a loud moaner or a quiet one?

lol so my boyfriend says I'm to loud in bed and he always shushes me even if we are alone but one of my guy best friends says he loves when his girl friend moans so is it normal for a boy to like moaning or not?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I personally love it when my girl is loud in bed. But it's important that it's also sincere. If it's just lip service, that sucks.

    Apparently, they've done studies, and when you moan while doing something pleasurable, the moaning makes it even more pleasurable.

    I guess your boyfriend is shy or something... A prude?

  • As long as you not waking people up in the house next to you, I don't see a problem. Plus like a lot of the guys have said, we like to feel more confident that you enjoy it just as much as we do. Moaning is sort of one of the biggest signals we get if what we are doing is right and it feels good

Most Helpful Girls

  • Different strokes for different folks, also consider the position, screaming in his ear might be too loud. Some guys are into "silencing the lamb, so ask your man the details.

    • Sometimes when I don't moan he thinks there is something wrong with me and he'll keep asking am I okay so it kinda confuses me

  • ive been shushed too so then I was silent but I got yelled at for that too. good question

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  • Id think most guys would prefer some form of feedback to know that they are doing it right. I think you may have got one of the rare guys that don't really like it, for the most part its generally a huge turn on, I think its REALLY hot

  • I love when my girlfriend moans in pleasure. It lets me know what feels good for her and its a real turn on for me just knowing I am pleasing her to the point she needs to vocalize it.

  • Yea I guess everyone is different but I know I like when a girl moans loud. Especially if we are alone, she can be as loud as she wants. That is a big turn on to me.

  • I think loud would be awesome. I'm a virgin so I don't actually know though.

  • well some guys like girls that are loud and some just perfer heavy breathing and a little moaning