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We guys are horny as hell, but why girls aren't?

...and if you are, why you don't have sex with strangers? I'm on vacation and horny as hell, but I think girls just like to dress nice, shake their boobs and ass, but that's all!
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You are saying a girl needs time, tension, connection... to have sex with you. It sounds girls are like angels: nice, devoted, honest,... . I thought like that when I was 15. Just like that. Then I found out about few girls who looked nice, were shy,
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good educatedn and so on, that they had sex with a lot of guys and that flipped my view of girls. It's not fair I'll save my virginity and then married a women who had sex with 15 partners. So I'm looking for ONS to get experiences.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • bro, guys are hard wired to f***. That's just the way it is. However, girls are actually hornier than guys, you just have to realize that we go 0-60 in 5 seconds and they go 0-100 in 60 minutes.

    Girls generally need a gradual increasing tension filled suggestive trickle, then BAM out of no where the switch flips and they are throwing you to the floor demanding to be f***ed like an animal. Learn to harness, cultivate, hint, and tease and you will be very surprised.

    For those girls out there who are raging hornballs and want to disagree, you have to admit you are already thinking about sex, so your not starting at zero. But for the average girl minding her own business you have to meet, entice, create tension, build, then suggest. without that warming up process, you will just have very well developed forearms and an empty bed.

    Find a hottie and flirt with her. Don't hide that you're horny, just don't hit her over the head with it either. Then mix being a "nice guy" with being a "horny bastard" and stir in a double shot of humor for a very smooth ride into tuna town. Just keep the topics about sex, but your mannerisms casual. If she likes you she will eventually get curious and horny too. But don't jump too soon and get all grabby or your will again be going solo. Keep your hints subtle but clear and your touches suggestive but respectful.

    Good luck, don't be shy. Shy = lonely.

    • That's quite a long procedure... what about an easier one? :)

    • Sure. Pay for it.

    • Haha, wow, I think this is nearly spot on. congrats and good luck.

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  • Women are just as horny as men. The differences are that for one, women are much more selective of who the score with. It's a common saying that women don't just do anyone and for the most part consider this mentality confirmed.

    Secondly, women are much more concerned about their image than men. A man who bangs two hundred women is a stud while women who humps maybe 25 are psycho sluts from hell. Once word gets around that a given woman is easy, she will never know peace unless she lives in a major city where it's easy to hide from the crowd. Remember that unless religion is brought into the factor, men are supposed to jump women while the ladies are supposed to be "proper" and "ladylike".

    Therefore, in the open, women are not as sexually aggressive and open...except in California...HAHAHAHA. but behind closed doors and away from the public eye, us men would be quite surprised of the secrets hidden amongst women.

    Personally, I don't bother to look anymore and wait to get into Canada! I JUST LOVE PARTYING IN THAT COUNTRY!

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm horny as hell all the time. And have only had sex with one man. It's not every girl. lol. Masturbation is key. Sure we do like to shake our ass and flaunt what we got, but we just like to have guys interested in us. It doesn't mean we want to have sex with them all. Sure, Some girls are sluts, and sleep with everyone. But me, not so much.

    Have a questions for me feel free to ask, I'm a very open person and will normally tell you like it is.

    -Ashley

    ^_^

    • But why you like for guys to be interested in you, but not have nothing with them? Isn't that like if I had money to buy a Rolls-Royce, but I wouldn't, I would rather just have the money and don't spend it ?

    • Some people don't want a Rolls-Royce, some want a Ferrari. You know? Girls can be very picky. Especially when it comes to the guy they screw. But they want to get everyone's attention, that way they keep their options open.

  • It depends on the girl. I'm as horny as any man and take offense to being told I'm not as horny. I've had an ex tell me "I'm not a machine" when I wanted sex more than he did (a response you'd expect more from a woman), and the only fights I have with my fiance are usually about me wanting sex more than him. I masturbated since I was three, stole my sibling's p*rn magazines, and watch p*rn when I have time to myself.

  • I'm horny 24/7,but because of my age,the fact that girls get labeled sluts and whores for having sex,and the STD and teen pregnancy rates are extremely high in my area(it's ridiculous) I choose to not have sex.I have fingers and a vibrator...I highly doubt boys at my age would care about my pleasure anyways...or guys of any age to be honest.

    I'm a virgin,but I rather wait until I'm in a relationship.

    • Really? I love to pleasure, so I'm pretty sure there are guys. I mean I was in a relationship with no sex, all we did was just pleasure each other and hold each other.

  • Agree with the slut label. I had a neighbor who was horny as hell but had sex with over 60 guys and word spread over school. I'm wild and crazy but I have my limits. I can't just have sex with every guy I see, although that would be nice, if double standards weren't in the way, but I'm a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed lol. You can only have me if you're my man or want to be my man :P

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  • All girls are different. I'm horny just like a guy. I have no problem having sex with a stranger, or sex. But not all girls are the same.

    • Where do you usually meet those strangers if I may ask? And what does a sex means to you ?

    • I meet strangers at clubs, bars or parties. Yes, alcohol is involved. And sex to me means penetration. Usually no oral or anal, just vaginal.

    • Thanks for honest answer

  • Girls are often just as horny as guys are, But they do have more boundaries than guys, usually. Probably many reasons for this. A common one being that if a guy sleeps with a lot of girls, he gets praise. If a woman sleeps with a lot of girls she gets called a slut or whatever. It's silly little stereotypes. But there is always exceptions, I feel that as a guy, I'm not as horny as most other guys. I do enjoy sex, but I don't make it a major priority. Nor is it something I really care when or if I have it in a relationship.

    • Heh, you don't care if your girl had sex with 25 guys (one at time, of course) and you see these guys almost every day and they are smiling when you pass them? I guess you did have a lot sex for yourself also if you have such opinion, or am I wrong?

    • Meh, So long as she is a girl I'd want to date I don't really care what her sexual past is so long as it's healthy to have relations with her. I'd not say I've had a lot of sex (with a lot of partners at least) I've slept with about 10% of my overall partners. I just like to keep an open mind and not judge perfectly good girls on their past.

  • I get you. Guys are at the beach, they look at a girl and think: "i'd love to do her right now". Of course we can't get over her and ask "Do you want to go over my apartment after you leave and have sex with me?" because the answer would probably be a big slap on the face or something worst... And it's not about STDs obviously... I mean I've met women who did something very similar but they were drunk so it's diferent.

    Maybe it has something to do with the fact that we guys can always orgasm while women need more intimacy and time to get off, so the experience could be useless for her?

    • True. but are also girls who would jump right into bed. I think.

    • Girls don't need more intimacy to get off, just need more focus on our clits. Girls get off real fast when masturbating, and no we don't light candles or spread flower petals to do so. You watch way tooo much porn if you think that stuff is real. I've rubbed out in a bathroom stall in under a minute just to clear my head and go about my day. Most guys think chicks get off from hard fast penetration but NO LOL we do not. That's just porn-world not the real world. Our clits are like your dicks. Our vaginas are not. Because we have babies from there, nature made sure we don't have a lot of nerves in there. It's not that sensitive past the vaginal opening. The clit is our main orgasmic organ. Our orgasms have nothing to do with intimacy and everything to do with anatomy. Basically you think girls need "deep connection", but we see it as "I need sum head and/or some swift finger talent" .

  • girls are just as horny as guys but they have a different set of things they look for in guys, and many chicks do have sex with strangers. I know a few.

  • i love blond and brown hair girls but body is bright sexy

    i love those girls.

  • cuz they have corners of tables, vegetables, electric toothbrushes, and a plethora of actual sex toys to work their rotten vags. we have nothing.

  • I might be down for random, hot, stranger sex but in general, when I'm horny, I'm thinking about the man I love.

  • Reproductive strategy from the beginning. Once a woman says yes,she needs do nothing else until delivery. Orgasm is random luck for women. The nice clothes, grooming and shaking are to attract the best class of guy...rich and powerful for protecting her and raising kids. Not very romantic, is it?

  • I'm always horny. I have a very high sex appeal lol but I don't have sex with strangers unless they're checked out first. No STD's for me please haha. I've never had sex with a stranger but only boyfriends, or ex boyfriends and fwbs.

    • Come on, are you really worried for STD or is something else? It's not very likely you would get a STD if a guy wears condom.

    • I wouldn't trust condoms. They break but if we lived in an STD free world, then yeah I'd jump on any hot guy I saw lol

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