My boyfriend came really quickly,and he's embarrassed what should I do?

Last night,my boyfriend and I were having sex,I was on top and...he came really fast.He came within less than a minute.He is the very first guy I have ever had sex with,i lost my virginity to him,he on the other hand has been with a few other girls.He never has a problem last AT ALL.He is amazing in bed.He's the perfect lover 100%.Foreplay is amazing,he fingers me and goes down on me and it's just amazing.And the sex is can not be described in words.He always makes sure I have at least 2 orgasms,one from oral the other vaginal.And he has no problem lasting at all. Since this has not happened before I don't know what to do!He's so embarrassed and doesn't want to talk about it or nothing.I don't know the right words to say or what to do.Help?!?
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  • the main thing is is not to make a big deal about it. it happens to everyone from time to time. as someone who used to have pretty major stamina problems I know how embarrassing it can be . . . but your sex life is great, so it really shouldn't be an issue. the only problem is if he starts to worry and stress about it it will probably happen more often. when it happens, maybe just tell him how hot it was that he was so excited and that you make him feel good. keep everything fun and low stress and it'll be all good.

  • stress, a lack of jerking-off, all kinds of stuff- it sounds like its probably just a one time thing-- or maybe you just felt/looked that good last night. doesn't sound like a huge problem, but def. talk to him-- tell him pleasing he usually is, and that its no big deal-- If you don't, he may become self-conscious about it, and hinder sex in the future, plus, if he stresses about it next time, he won't last as long. The most important is to make sure his ego is maintained

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  • It's a normal thing, happens to all of us stallions. Just don't bring it up, I know he won't.

    Just keep having safe amazing sex, have fun.

  • Just don't bring it up. Have sex with him again as always. it happens to every guy, and is usually stress induced

  • tell him to stop being a p**** its mainly embarassing because we feel like we failed you and we want to pleasure you at least womewhat I've had it happen before I don't know why but I barely ever have had that problem just turn his attention to something else if you know what I mean and hopefully he lastts longer this time