"Sorry Chap, no sex for you tonight" Followed with a good solid pat on the back. You may choose to give him your number or not after this display. Honesty is always the best thing, brutal honesty is great when it comes to anything sexual. If you're going to make up a lie you might as well make up a good one.
Potential lies that will work
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"Sorry, I need to get home and pay the babysitter"
"Unfortunately it's that time of the month..."
"I'm Gay"
"I'm a virgin"
"Sure but can my boyfriend come?"
All of these will bail you out no questions asked and will definitely keep that ego in check.
LMFAO "Sure but can my boyfriend come?"
You had to pull the virgin card, didn't you.. ;)
Just be honest with him. If you like him and you wanna go over and just spend time with him, then say that. Just say something like, I wanna come over, but just to chill. No matter what you say to him, if you end up going over he's gonna try for sure, so just be prepared.
If you don't like him then just say I just see you more as a friend. That way he gets that you care for him, but just in a friendly way.
Hope it helps. Good luck and take care.
Don't go back to his place...make up and excuse,say you have to go to work/school early in the morning or you have errands to run in the morning
Tell him that you have to get up early in the morning for something important
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If you want to shut him off, try ``I won't know you well enough --- ever.'' In this case his ego could use brusing.
If you want to keep it open, ``Not now. Later, perhaps?'' This gives him hope, and if he's a gentleman he'll respect your decision. If not, you've learned something about him. Go to No. 1.
Screw his ego. Send clear messages. Subtle hints and head games are the bane of male-female relationships.
just be honest, tell him that you would like to go his place someday, but right now it's a little bit to far for that and see if he understand that. and then ask him to go to a restaurant or some places beside his home. :)
Tell him BEFORE YOU GO that you're not planning to have sex. If he wasn't after that, he'll be okay with that. If that's all he was after, he'll probably be p*ssed. However, if you tell him right before you have sex that you're not going to, he'll either be even more p*ssed or you'll get raped.
Wouldn't that be awkward though, to just say "I don't want to have sex tonight." Obviously, it would be worse to wait until the last min. but to avoid the awkwardness all together would it be better to just lie and say you have something to do early in the morning, or is it just better to be up front and honest?
Well, I think it depends. Are we talking about not having sex on just one particular night, or as in you're not ready for sex in the relationship yet? If it's just a one night thing, then either say that you're not up for it tonight, or actually have something to do otherwise. Alternatively, just don't put yourself in that position, like leave in the afternoon or something. If it's not yet in the relationship, just tell him that you're not ready yet. I'd rather a girl be honest than lie.
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