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If gay sex is so "unnatural" then why does it feel so good?

If it is so unnatural so not normal then why does it feel good? I'm talking mostly about receiving here. Most guys have never been on the other side, the side where they are the ones getting penetrated and most will never try which kind of makes me feel bad because they are missing out of the full potential of an orgasm. When the prostate get stimulated it creates so much pleasure it will blow away any orgasm you have ever had. Its better then the first time. It has to be natural if there is a place on a man where another man can insert his penis and in doing so bring immense pleasure to the receiver. I know what people are going to say "That's an exit only that's where sh*t come out" Well you have sex with your penis and that's where urine comes out. Your penis does two different normal things and like it or not you anus does too. I like women and I mean a lot I am attracted to their bodies and have a drive to have sex with them but I also enjoy having sex with a guy. I am bi. My question is why do so many people say being gay/bi is unnatural or not normal?
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  • I am going against basically everyone here, I am a believer in God and what He has made is natural. That is where part of many opinion comes in. But here is why it is unnatural, biologically the body is made for certain functions and certain things, if the body part wasn't made for that function and you use it for something else it is unnatural, for example the anal vs vaginal. The vagina was created for the penis, the way it was made it can stretch to fit the man's penis and push a baby out and go back to the original size or close to it because of the way it was designed and its functional use. Now go to anal, this body part was made to digest food and push it out, not made the same way the vagina is with the ability to stretch to max size and go back to normal, the sphincter which is used to hold your bowels doesn't have the elasticity of the vagina. Once it is stretched more than it can handle it can't and won't go back to the size it needs to be at. Anal sex destroys the sphincter and can't hold in the bowels which results in unnecessary health problems like uncontrollable bowel movements resulting in wearing adult diapers, hemorrhoids, internal bleeding leading to death, stds, and many other embarrassing issues.
    On another note if it were natural then there would be a way for homosexuals to reproduce without help.
    Last note all because it feels good doesn't mean it is natural, it feels good for people to molest children is that natural? It feels good to people to have sex with animals isthat natural? It feels good to people to become serial killers or rapists, is that natural? Incest is that natural?
    Sex isn't just about feeling good, the main reason for sex is to reproduce, then the feel good factor. If 2 guys or girls can't reproduce then it is against nature's law, that mind you God Himself created.

    • Oh shut it already. Seriously, this is your argument? Sex even mentioned in the bible is not just for reproduction. did you have sex before marriage... probably... That's against what God said too. Do you eat shellfish or pork? That's against the word of God as well. On your period and sleep in the same bed as your boyfriend or husband? That's against the word of God. Not a virgin on your wedding night you should be stoned is in the bible... Seriously you notice in the new testament all of these things changed. Don't sit there and try to say that God did this and that's an excuse for your ignorance. In the new testament none of these things were mentioned and before you say homosexuality was mentioned... Not by God or Jesus it was mentioned by a man... Paul which was one of the worst of the worst disciples. Anal sex does not destroy the sphincter you obviously know nothing about the human body. Please do some more reading and research before you speak.

    • @ayameko Terrific answer!

    • @ayameko brilliant answer

  • I wouldn’t call gay sex or any other kind of consensual sex between adults "unnatural". As in the example you gave, a penis can be used for sex or for urinating. So, one might argue that anal sex is also natural for a similar reason.

    Most men’s reticence towards receiving anal sex is most probably due to power issues resulting from the traps of the human psyche. I am a gay man who does not hold such concerns any more. I am an exclusive bottom, and enjoy getting penetrated on a regular basis. So, if you enjoy the same, by all means, do it! The labels like straight, bi, gay, etc., created by the society are not so relevant here.

  • Well it seems like the penis and the vagina were made to procreate, whereas the anus was made as an "exit". The goal of sex in nature is to procreate the species and homosexual sex obviously doesn't do this. I'm no expert, that's just what I would think.

    However, something doesn't have to be natural in the strictest for it to be enjoyable. That goes for anal sex but also oral sex and many other things that people have created for their own enjoyment.

    Why would you even worry about its naturalness? You enjoy it, your partner enjoys it, you're not harming yourselves or anyone else, who cares if it's natural?

    • *in the strictest sense

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  • WOW- Thanks for this post! I am a 35 y/o straight guy that is passionate about women and only feel close sexual/emotional love with them. However, I also enjoy the feeling of a guy's lubed up **** worked slow deep into my ass while I squeeze my c**k. The 'anal orgasm' is insane. So much more intense than just shooting a load of sperm! It's like a lightning bolt to brain. I only have gay sex once or twice every couple years- but it feels great, so natural- what the f**k ever - and I confess that I masturbate with my big black dildo maybe 1-3 times a week, the other 5+ times are with my hot little babe. Now let em say, as an atheist and a humanist I'm fine with consensual, non-harmful, adult (human on human) interactions - Hell, I even think church should be allowed. Strange but I mean, if that's what gets you off then okay... but come on religious peeps(figuratively). Can't you see that it's possible you are just repressed and lashing out on what you desire? Call it Evil or Whatever? Seriously, how many Preachers do we have to see condemn "Evil Homosexuals" and later we find out they are f***ing other guys themselves!?! Bottom line; I think everyone needs a hard c**k pushed balls deep in their ass, at least once :P

    • I am a 33y/o guy who has reciently come to terms that I am a gay man in a straight marrage. I am tired of the gay/straigt stigmas. Why do we always have to be put in boxes and then expected to act certain ways? I agree with Peice2All's comment, I absolutely believe that all MEN should open up and experience this. I absolutley love it when my BF is balls deep inside of me, there is absolutely no words to describe the feeling!! My only regret in live is that I fought me desires instead of letting them out. To all who are in the position of fighting your desires... stop!! Let them out and have fun:)

    • You are bang on (yes pun intended) with your thoughts on this topic. I too am a happily married man in a hotwife relationship (yes I share my wife with other men, it's hot!). One of my wife's lovers came over to have a threesome and my wife convinced me (with lots of alcohol lol) to let him penetrate me. Well after much intrepidation I went for it. My wife loved the show and I found out how amazing it feels to have a warm hard cock sliding in and out of me hitting my prostate and causing me to blow my load harder than I even have before. I swear I thought I had been hit in the head and saw heaven lol. So to this day every time he's over to bang my wife he puts in an hour on me as well lol. So go for it, it doesn't make you gay it just means you're human and your enjoying the pleasures of being human! Oh and I'm not gay because I share my wife (for you naysayers), my wife is human as well and has needs and desires that we all do, so why stifle it because society says so? :)

    • I am a homosexual and I've had a boyfriend for a while now I'll just say the first time can hurt but when you keep doing it feels AMAZING top or bottom

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  • being gay is not unnatural at all. only conservatives who are uneducated think that.

    im not a guy so I don't know how that feels lol but I am bisexual and I love lesbian sex. :)

    • You just made yourself look ignorant while you were trying to sound non ignorant ha

    • Sure babe lol okay

  • People have their own ideas about sex, and some follow a very strict definition of what is acceptable. Don't worry about it. There are tons of sex acts out there that would raise eyebrows more so than this.

    I don't get why being natural is such a big deal for sex. Well I do, but that doesn't make it any less idiotic.

    And 5/5 for the topic title.

  • Unnatural or not when your sensitive areas are stimulated it usually feels good still doesn't mean its "right"

  • Straight people can enjoy it just as much. They do make strap ons and various other toys a female can use on a male. Just most males aren't open to it.

    • Are you?

    • I am indeed.

    • As am I, a strap-on or dildo can feel wonderful but I just can't get enough of being well fucked by a hot hard cock!!

  • gay anal is natural though, it has served a great evolutionary purpose for improving social cohesion, relationship building, bonding between males, and probably resolving arguments when one guy can help the other just chill out and relax about whatever. The evolutionary benefit of engaging in anal sex for many reasons is likely what encouraged people to evolve pleasure sensors in the anus, plus guy's prostates being oh so conveniently located right there for added pleasure. Culturally people say it's unnatural because of gender roles and archaic cultural beliefs, but there are some pretty good reasons why we evolved to get pleasure from anal

  • Most people will make the "it's nor normal or natural" argument based on the fact that sex is meant for reproduction. Because yeah, you know, that's the only reason why so many people have sex. LOL

    Me personally, I don't find it unnatural or not normal. It's not something I will ever want or do, and in that way it is unnatural and not normal for ME but that doesn't mean that it's not natural nor normal for YOU. I assume that this is also a line of thinking that a lot of other people use: "it is so incredibly unnatural and not normal for me, therefore it is unnatural and not normal for everyone else." Of course, that logic is flawed, but it is what it is.

    As for why some males receive pleasure from prostate stimulation, I really have no idea. If people are really into that sort of thing though, there are other ways of doing that without being on the receiving end of penile penetration (toys, fingers, etc.).

  • I don't understand why they say it's unnatural, I personally love receiving, I know what your talking about it feels soooo good. ;)

  • its not unnactual, it just is to a religous point off view, don't worry about it to much

    • I agree with the anon user, there are a lot of things that make as feel good but will you actually go for it and do all those things? For instance will you start doing drugs or drinking yourself to death, because that feels good right? If you think that gay sex is OK you might as well try zoo sex and other sick stuff, no offense but gays were the reason of most sex diseases, back in the 90's almost every second person was AIDS infected who knows what other infestation they can produce.

    • maybe its not the natural way of sex but if they like it let them, if the person can feel comfortable physically and emotionally with the same sex to do something sexually why deny them that right, diseases have been round since the dawn of time till long after we die so you can blame gay people for spreading diseases. we all have our views, your view I understand but be more open minded hun

  • It's is very hot as a top or bottom. It's unnatural because people who claim it is are very uncomfortable with it.

  • Just because you only like 1 (or however many friends there are) guy, doesn't mean your not bi, maybe you should spend some time thinking about it, go to a gay bar and just see if anything happens, or when your both really drunk, just see if it goes anywhere.. So you can get it of your chest

  • Right on, I couldn't agree more including the fact that most men will never allow themselves to experience this so called "unnatural" act that feels so unbelievably great.

    BTW: believe it or not, women were very instrumental both in words and actions, in getting me to experience anal sex as person "getting penetrated."

  • 2 girls 1 cup is unatural 2 guys 1 horse is unatural anal sex has been displayed by animals who don't need clothes it's built in unlike us who are unatural and animals don't use chemicals to bathe or eat processed foods I think if it's in nature around us which we definitely are not part of then it's natural and I loved it especially when a guy fucks me where I feel his balls slap against me and a hot load dripping from my twinging ass it makes me blow the best loads out my cock and as a versatile i love to the feeling of a fat ass hot tight hole to fill up go anal !!!

  • Did you know that anal sex of any kind weakens the anal muscles? My sister has colon cancer, and her doctor told her that because she hasn't had any anal sex, she doesn't have to have a bag for the rest of her life. However, many of this doctors patients who have had anal sex usually aren't as lucky.

    • you know the sphincter is a muscle that can be strengthened right? Just saying there are exercises for that to help tighten. Just like when you use the bathroom and it's abnormally large your anus tightens back up. You can aide the process or let it happen naturally. That statement is more of a wives tell or applies to older people. Since your muscles weaken with age anyhow

    • @ayameko you're saying a doctor is spreading a wives tale? Most doctors, especially those dealing with caner patients, (and I've met a number of doctors as I've been to many of my sister's appointments) I know do not tell their patients wives tales. Also my sister was only 39 when she was diagnosed, so she really wasn't "an older person," as you're implying. And yes, I do know the sphincter is a muscle, but I was simply relaying what my sister's DOCTOR had told her.

    • @ayameko when I shared this it was in no way to shame anyone who practices anal activities. I was simply sharing what the doctor had shared with my sister. Maybe it will encourage those who participate in anal activities to find exercises to strengthen the anal muscles so they won't have problems in the future. :)

  • So do Meth and Cocaine.

    • Your answer makes no sense at all, meth and cocaine are illeagal, they can kill you, they are harmful to your body. total opposite of what I am talking about

    • Maybe he was just implying that something doesn't have to be natural for it to feel good, regardless of whether or not it's good for you?

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