Taking a shower right after sex?

Does it offend you when somebody takes a shower right after sex? I mean, like right after sex!

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When I really like a guy, I don't take a shower till much much later or the following day, because I want to sleep with his smell on me, his sweat, his cologne, and relive the moments. Am I the only freak that does this?
If I'm not that attracted to the guy, then, I will go immediately to take a shower.

 

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  • It depends on who I am with. If I am with my fiance and after sex he were to jump off and run to the shower yes it would hurt my feelings. I understand it gets sticky and a bit uncomfortable.but I make an effort to cuddle a bit. However, if it's someone I'm not really attached to I have been known to walk over and take a shower. I don't jump off like I've been doused by some nasty goo. I just casually get up and walk out.

  • no, its normal. After having so much fun, we all smell a little, and its really hot to take a shower with your girl/guy.

  • not to me. I just about always take a shower right after. I hate the feeling of being sweaty and gross.

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    I can see how it would, and I can see how you would want to just kind of lay around,

    but the thing is, some people just might not like the feeling of being sweaty.

    Its really as simple of that.

    Its not you, its their way of thinking.

    SO don't get offended.

    You can always ask why they do it.


    Maybe they don't want the smell of sex to remain on them through out the day or the next.

    If it would make you feel better, you should shower with them.


    My way to true understanding is to be vocal.

    Go ahead and ask why they take showers right after sex.


    Good Luck & I hope that helped.



    Sincerely,

    A Loving Black Man

  • 1st, why would you have sex with a guy that you are not that attracted to? are you sure you just didn't rush it and not build enough comfort


    2nd, he must not of worked you hard enough. mine always pass out afterwards

    • Uno- I hook up when I want to, I have enough trophies on my wall.


      secondly- if a woman did do that I would take that as her making a "statement" towards me and my statement back would be to be gone long before she got back out

    • 1. Well, I am single, and women also have sexual needs, just like you men.

      2. For me to pass out afterwards, he must be really incredible

      3 And you really didn't answer my question? :-/

  • Since sex usually ends with people being covered in lube, sweat and other bodily secretions, I have no objection to people showering after sex. In fact, you can actually cut down your chances of picking up an STI by 50% if you shower after sex.


    I would try to invite my play partner for additional stimulation though.

    • Good point about showering after to reduce chances of STI. Upping your post.

  • No, it doesn't offend me.


    I would be more offended by someone not showering BEFORE sex if they were 'funky' as it were, rather than someone showering after sex due to funk. I know everyone has their days but please!


    I myself don't feel the need to rush in and take a shower after sex.I really don't want to rush anywhere after sex, and if I've taken care of her properly, she isn't rushing anywhere either.


    I think it is a mindset. I do find it mildly humorous that their sexual 'funk' as it were bothered them to the degree that they felt the need for an immediate shower. They can do the deed, they just don't like the ick?


    Generally this is something more common to germaphobic personalities, which in and of itself is something taken to an extreme.


    If a shower is all they need to feel good again, then by all means.lets go shower :)






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