I understand your dilemma.Do you want to do this?Leave aside the worries about what it might do to your relationship,and explore if it is something that you would like to share with her.How did it make you feel when she asked you?If you want to do this,go ahead,she has already changed the relationship in some way by asking you.Trust is a huge issue,and she obviously trusts you a great deal to lay bare her emotions in order to ask you.If it is something you are not comfortable with then please explain that to her,it must have taken immense courage for her to have asked you,and it is a big compliment to you that you were the one chosen.Have you spoken to her (at all) since she asked you?
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Yes, I have spoken to her since then, I guess I was just more shocked and surprised than anything. I was never going to throw away all those years of friendship over this. But, we talked it over some, and I think we've come to a reasonable decision. In truth our little chat revealed more than I ever would've guessed. Like the fact she's been harboring a crush on me since 8th grade, but I didn't go through all of High School and College with the nickname "Admiral Oblivious" for nothing
I get a sense that you are a modest person perhaps and are unaware of your effect on the opposite sex,that's a great nickname!:) .It sounds like this has been a good experience for both of you,to having been able to talk through whar are some very sensitive and intimate subjects,it can only bring you a new understanding of one another,which is a gift,whatever the outcome.The very best of luck.
She wants you to get naked and ravage her...in a good way.
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No,this is only for fun...in and of itslef won't change anything in your relationship. She's just embarrassed to have to ask someone!
0 0 0 0Ah c'mon, this is just for fun how on earth could it change your relationship foreer? And is ist such a tragedy if it does?
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0 2So I'm guessing that you don't want anything more with this woman?
0 1 0 0It's very simple actually. SHE WANTS YOU
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