There's this girl I've been friends with since we were in 7th grade, (we graduated High School in 94) but we've never dated just been best friends,and a few days ago I asked her what she wanted for her birthday, and she gave me a short list of things, but then she got really quiet and turned more shades of red than I thought a human being could turn. She then looked at me and told me that she wanted something that she hadn't gotten in many years, and that something was a birthday spanking. I was stunned to say the least, she made it pretty obvious that she wants me to give her, her birthday spanking, but I have no idea if I should, I mean we've only been friends never anything more than that, and I'm afraid that if I do this that I'll irrevocably change our relationship. What should I do? Am I being too paranoid about this? Please any help will be greatly welcome!
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I understand your dilemma.Do you want to do this?Leave aside the worries about what it might do to your relationship,and explore if it is something that you would like to share with her.How did it make you feel when she asked you?If you want to do this,go ahead,she has already changed the relationship in some way by asking you.Trust is a huge issue,and she obviously trusts you a great deal to lay bare her emotions in order to ask you.If it is something you are not comfortable with then please explain that to her,it must have taken immense courage for her to have asked you,and it is a big compliment to you that you were the one chosen.Have you spoken to her (at all) since she asked you?