Sexual Health
+1 y

Why do guys not tell you when the condom breaks?

This is the second time a guy finished off in me and knew the condom broke. Why do you not tell the girl? Now I have to wait two weeks freaked out! Thanks
0 0

Most Helpful Guys

  • First of all. at the height of things, you can't always feel that it broke. Did you feel it and stop him? No. Expect the same thing.

    That being said if DOES break, and you know it (guys), you should do your best to take precautions by stopping and getting another one.

    Getting pregnant (girls) isn't the so easy for many, don't get all worked up about it if it does happen. If you're really worried, there's something called the "morning after pill". go to a clinic, a doctor, and take care of it.

    If you DO get pregnant, both of you should have already a good idea where you were stand under that event. If you can't say you're sure what you're going to do, then sorry, but you're not mature enough to be messing around.

    • Go and get an after pill? Typical selfish answer from a male..

  • I have never not told the girl,but it only happened to me once. Now I'm not saying that this is always true but some guys poke a hole in it because it does feel better for us without using a condom.

    I know a girl that buys & carries her own condoms. She puts it on the guy too. Now the thing is that you can't keep stopping & looking to see if he broke it on purpose or if it just broke. If it's a serious relationship than I hope that you would trust the guy. A one night stand well then anything can & does happen.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No one has ever done this to me. I've been with guys when the condom has broken, but they've all told me immediately. If they didn't, and I had the slightest feeling that they knew and didn't say, I'd seriously never have sex with them again. How could I? They're apparently trying to impregnate me against my will or something. I couldn't be with a person like that.

  • they do that because it makes them feel like they are going into new territory, like they're behaving as a bad-ass, because they don't know what will happen.

    kiki

    • That is such a bad answer lol no way is that a reason why... how about it feels better?

    • "It feels better" is a pretty bad answer too. What kind of moron risks an unwanted pregnancy for that?

    • This. I never would have thought that I'd keep thrusting after a condom broke but I did. The snap was actually painful and feeling the broken condom move around was uncomfortable but knowing that I was close to orgasm and suddenly bareback inside her gave me an entirely new sense of closeness, danger, and naughtiness. Afterward I was freaked out that I had done it. I never told her.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

Girls, do you have sex drive?
I just want to get fucked! How to get a guy to approach you/notice you at a party?
Are you mentally ill or mentally healthy, and is it difficult or easy for you to orgasm during masturbation?
If a guy told you he could cum farther than he can pee, what would be your reaction?

What Girls & Guys Said

0 7

  • there is a pill out there you can get from planned parenthood that diverts the sperm . I think it works up to 3 days after intercourse. so if you are in that time frame. getting that pill may not be a bad idea.

    i had a condom break on me once on new years eve. I told the girl that it broke. and it made things uneasy. thank god nothing happend cause planned parenthood didn't open until 4 days later.

  • haha I think it has happened to most guys. it has happened once to me, and it was because I didn't have the condom on right I think. I don't really remember I was wasted lol I had no hope getting to climax anyway so I wasnt too worried as I remember but I still told her I think. but I can't really remember. wow that is pretty bad huh

    i think most guys would tell you if it did happen. any guy that doesn't is a dickhead but that goes without saying.

    • Hmmm a disagree? I shall hide my little drunken stories from now on!

  • I had that happen 2 times. I honestly didn't know it had broken. It will not break, if the guy has made sure to first get you nice and wet. Don't let the guy in you before you have had sufficient foreplay to get you wet, and you will never have that problem again.

  • i tell. I don't want a baby either.

    If you know his name. he should freak out too. because you can find him. and make him pay child support or for your abortion or whatever you would do.

    Only possibility: You f*** morons.

    • Rofl.

    • Lol

  • we probably think that if we tell you, you may not want to have sex anymore.

  • Because it feels better and we want to get you pregnant

  • Yeah, stop f***ing with morons. Either, date and have sex with guys you trust, so this doesn't happen or just don't complain.

    • You mean morons like yourself?

Latest Questions

If women don’t enjoy penetration then why do they like sex?
What makes someone of opposite sex good in bed for you?
Is getting a circumcision the right answer in my case?
What is the safest way to dispose a used condom that was not your husband?
Home >  Sexual Health  > Why do guys not tell you when the condom breaks?