Over thinking/ insecure... ladies help me out

[Anonymous]

I no people are probably tired of these question but I've felt very insecure about my penis size because of my ex girlfriend and it has affected my confidence when it comes to going for girls quite a bit. We were each others first real relationship/hook ups so I was never worried about my penis size when I was with her because she had never seen another guys d***. after we broke up we stayed friends for a few months and she was seeing this guy during this period. eventually things got very heated between us and she started take jabs at my penis size saying sh*t about my d*** being small or that she's moved on to bigger and better things(referring to his d***) and things of that nature. plus I started watching p*rn a lot more and those guys d*** are massive so its made me feel rather inadequate, and I tend to over think everything and I've been somewhat depressed for the last few months this being one of the main reasons. my penis is 7'' long and 5'' girth but I really want it to be bigger because my confidence is shot right now... I really need to no if my penis is actually small? or is she just a dumb bitch whose trying to get at me the easiest way a girl can by questioning the size of my man hood?

[blur93tt]

Dude your seven inches long. That's above average. She's just trying to get to you, some women are just like that. My most recent ex told me I was probably gay because I didn't just do the 10 minute quick pound and finish like most guys, but I was sensual, took my time, lots of warm up, oral, and if she didn't finish when I did Id finish her oral or with my hand. I laughed at her when she said that, but she was just looking for a reaction.

Another ex told me I sucked in bed and she faked it all the time, and then two months later she's messaging me apoligising for what she said and asking If we could hook up because she hasn't came since me. Then she got a new BF, then after they split she tried to get with me again lol.

Sometimes when there really pissed, theyll go right for your balls (kind of literally) shrug it off. Your not small dude.

[IAmAnon123]

Dude, 7 inches long is above average, and 5 inches girth is high average. You're fine. She's only saying that because she knows it'll get to you. 7x5 is absolutely nothing to be worried about.

[the_cheshire_cat]

7 inches? are you serious? The -average- penis size is just under 6. Hun you're laaaaughing.

Seriously tho. By the time you get the the sexual point with a woman (just sayin) it shouldn't matter at all what size you are or if you have one ball or not or if it's polkda dotted or whatever. (just no STDs because well, that would matter just a wee bit ;) )

For me when I'm finally ready to have sex with a guy it's because I adore him and love him so very much and accept him as he is. The sex becomes a testimant to that.

Your ex is being a bitter vindictive person. She's just trying to get you upset. Pay no attention to her.

[Allineed]

I dated a guy who was very very well endowed. It's so well endowed that his friends called him the horse. Anyway the point I'm getting at is this..even with his assets, sex with him wasn't all that enjoyable. It's not in the size and every woman can back me up on this. It's how you use your tool.And sex isn't just about penetration its an all around experience. How you savour each others' body and learning the curves and quirks. Don't worry about what your ex said. As the saying goes 'when the past knocks, don't look back. It won' have anything good to say" Chin up and go out and be yourself.

[Anonymous]

love, my boyfriend's penis is like 5 inches and we have great sex. 7 inches is NOTHING to worry about. she's just trying to get to you.

[Lockjawx27]

If 7 inches is not enough, then you are dealing with a size queen who has a fat vag.

I've heard that even 4 inches is plenty. And yea she is a dumb bitch that should go F herself