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My boyfriend wants me to give him a blowjob?

At first I was really afraid, to do it because I think its gross. But as I thought about it, I decided I would do it. But in return he said he would... Show More

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  • Oh I was just like you when I first gave one, the thought of it was so scary, but when the time comes it's not actually that bad. And I don't usually lecture people, but make sure your in love with the person and that your ready. Usually the sign of nervousness means that your not ready for that yet. Honestly for most girls giving a blowjob isn't fun for them, Honestly the reaction you get is the best part. And every guy is different when it comes to blowjobs, if you are going to do this, tell him simply you want him to tell you what he likes when he likes it, then you know all the right spots to hit. Hope it helped.

What Guys Said 4

  • Thinking blowjobs and cunnilingus are gross is just an extension of "cooties". Explore your sexuality; it feels great!

  • Just let him know you don't want one and I'm pretty sure he won't argue as long as he's pleased. Most likely he figured he would ask just so you don't feel like your getting nothing in return or he could also be curious about it as well. To give a BJ, watch p*rn, read tutorials or ask your bff who may have experience.

  • Umm. He wants you to give a blowjob? I wouldn't ask my girl to suck my dic* because in my opinion its quiet rude toward the partner.Well if you guys really love each other than it won't be a big deal :D

  • I think someone should write a book on blowjobs. It's guaranteed to be a best-seller.

What Girls Said 6

  • Just tell him straight that you don't want him to eat you out. And as for the blowjob, just be adventurous with it! Lick, suck, twirl, anything you can think of. Use your hand at the same time and try different pressures and variations on technique. This link should help as well: link

  • you don't have to DO anything you don't want/ and or feel comfortable doing. remember that :)there are so many articles on tips for giving amazing bj's, they worked for me lol...and about eating you out, just be truthful and let him know how you feel about that.good luck girl!

  • Girrll you're missing out. It feeels amazing. I'd let him do it, unless you honestly are uncomfortable or whatever, but I do recommend it!For a Bj, Don't use your teeth, twirl your tongue around it and make eye contact. You can deep throat (if you can) if not, use your hand at the same pace as your head.

  • How to tell him you don't want one? With words. Tell him no thank you. You shouldn't knock something until you've tried it, though.How to give a blowjob? Watch p*rn. Look at other questions about the subject. Use Google. WikiAfterDark probably has an article on it, and if you're lucky it will actually help.

    • I agree with her sentiment about him giving you oral, though. There's a reason most girls love it! Try it and see what you think, and if you don't like it then don't do it again. Simple as that. :]

    • Yeah, I would try letting him give you oral, I know the thought of it might be weird at first but you will enjoy it! and if not, then at least you TRIED it!

  • If he has the usual respect for you then he will guide you but don't do it unless you feel comfortable, when I did it for the first time it was really weird but then I got used to it. Also, making eye contact is something that comes with comfort level, it can be a little nerve racking if its your first few times.

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