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Guys: Describe the best sex ever?

I know the blow jobs and a girl tightening her vaginal muscles. always work, but what else. I've done massaging the balls, kuma sutra, playing with the taint, reverse cow girl (all at the same time I might add) but what else is there. I want more variety in our sex life. I mean the sex is good, but sometimes after I've been doing all these things he blows after like 5 minutes. How can I make him last longer. He enjoys the sex very much, but I just wish he could last longer.
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  • Well, there are only so many things the girl can do that are within her control.

    The "best" sex takes all things into account. I remember when I was doing my summer internship and helping with mass tort litigation for environmental damages. The only positive aspect of the internship was the name recognition of the firm. Then, because of my accounting background, I made a suggestion to the associate on what formula we should use to allocate the damages between all the parties and the state; and within each group, further allocate the damages between each individual bringing forth an action (which was not as easy as simply giving everyone an equal share.) The associate suggested the idea to the partner, and it was worked into the final damages calculation. I got credit for it, in spite of other interns working on the same case; from better schools.

    It gave me a sense of belonging. I felt that I made the right choice in life; it felt great.

    In the mean time, for some totally unrelated reason, my girlfriend was feeling affectionate. She went shopping, she did her nails and hair, etc. She asked me to come over on the weekend. So I went over on the weekend, not having or even thinking about sex for the past 5 days. She looked fine.

    French tips, strait long hair, smooth skin, soft skin-tight short low-cut shirt, super-mini skirt our of ripped jean material, neon hot pink thong, black f-me 5" heels; it was awesome.

    She just had this attitude about her that said; f*** me. It's as if from the moment we started to the moment we finished; everything about her was trying to get me to come. The way she looked, the way she sounded, the way she moved, everything she would do (which was not anything crazy or over the top, it was actually slow, close and intimate.)

    But her body was mine; to do with as I pleased. At that moment, she had complete sexual power over me; and it felt great for both of us. I loved seeing her feel confident and sexy, because then it was easier for her to get me to surrender to her sexuality (come).

    I think what made sex awesome was that we were both dominant, and both submissive; simultaneously. On the face of it, it looked as if I was controlling her and that she was basically my sex toy. Yet, at the same time, it was also the case that she had me under her spell, under her complete control, I was a slave to her sexuality; and she could get me to do and feel anything.

    It's not that easy to describe an experience like that, but if you can salvage what little you can from what I'm trying to convey; hopefully you'll take with you a couple of good ideas you can you for whoever you have in mind.

  • Generally you can't do several good things at once, so just focus on a couple good things. For instance sometimes I'm just really going to want a great blowjob, so all those cowgirl and doggystyle tips are meaningless. Anyway... I'll list a few good things...

    "Reverse Doggystyle" - During doggystyle sex, have him stay still with his back against a wall, and you go back and forth on his d***. Not only is this super hot but it feels great and it lets you control the action, both giving him a break and making it easier for you to get yourself off.

    During regular doggystyle, put your face down against the bed and reach back with your arms to lightly play with his balls and/or play with your clit. Remember you cumming super hard several times makes sex better for him because it'll make him feel like a super stud.

    USE LUBE! Unless you get super super wet naturally, lube makes things feel so much better and slicker.

    Let him come wherever he wants. If you have something against swallowing come or taking a facial, suck it up for 10 seconds and let him do it to you. He sacrifices for you all the time, can't you sacrifice for him?

    Indulge his fantasies. Every person has a few things they really want to do that they normally don't get to. So if he wants to tie you up and blindfold you and have his way with you, or if he wants to put your panties in his mouth while you ride him cowgirl, or whatever... give him a shot to open up and indulge. Not only is this very sexually hot, but it's very intimate because guys rarely get to open up and experience something they really want but don't get to talk about or try.

    IF he has a fantasy you have a problem with - the example I'll be using is anal sex - don't stick it in an "automatic no" category, but look at it with a problem-solving attitude. If anal sex too painful for you (or you're too scared about pain to try it), they make anal lubes with mild numbing agents that greatly reduce the pain. Keep an open mind rather than just retreating to "nuh uh!"

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  • Two multitasking individuals trying to work the other up before they succumb to the passion. Like a well coreographed music video, the moves flow so smooth. Kissing her lips, chin, neckline, shoulder, down to one breast then over to the next. She kisses his neck, shoulder, and across to suck on his fingers. The free hand caressing the 'sweet spot' of the other person.

    You are so consumed with the person in front of you, the song on the radio that maybe playing is the furthest thought in your mind. You just want to make your partner happy and when you both release at the same time it is hotter than the sun. It's like you meld into each other, your inner spirits combine. Words hold no meaning the magnitude of... oh I was talking about making love.

  • Well, you're asking for two different things. You want him to have the best sex ever, but you want him to last longer. The problem is when you give a guy really good sex, he tends to come quicker.

    For me the best sex when the girl is really into, completely opened to expressing herself and completely opened to me expressing myself.

  • Tantric Sex. Look it up. You'll love it.

  • Best sex always starts with either (1) a midget or (2) more than two people or (3) drugs like ecstasy or coke or somethin' like that...but for contemporary stiffs I would say kama sutra for sure, i.e. the wheelbarrow, hard to do but if you work out then it's gonna give you a great double orgasm

  • Never tried this, but I think the best sex ever would be:

    To have sex with the girl being on top (cowgirl style), except instead of laying flat on my back, I would be propped up against the headboard with a pillow (so basically I'd be sitting mostly upright) and she would be riding me straight up & down. And right before I'd orgasm, I would ask the girl to slow the pace way down and I would sit straight up and wrap my arms around the girl.

    Basically I want to hug a girl and have her hugging me back (slowly squeezing each other tighter and tighter) just as I orgasm and come inside her. (Best hug ever? Um, yeah!) Having her slow down the tempo should allow me to focus on all of the sensations better (in theory)...and make it easier to hug her.

    A variation would be me sitting upright and her riding me up and down with her face an inch away from mine so I can look deep into her eyes as I orgasm. Maybe hold her hands and squeeze them as I cum...

    It's just something I came up with. Someone should try out either scenerio and let me know how it goes.

  • The girls I've been with have said anal sex(from me) has been the best sex they experienced, and anal is also my absolute favorite. Much better than a blow job. Make sure to look up and know how to perform anal sex properly, otherwise it will be discomforting.

  • A BJ with deep anal fingering to orgasm. The trouble with best is that it = fast come.

  • If you want him to last longer, give him an orgasm first, then it will take him longer the second time. You have to figure out what the timing is though. If he is a teen his recover time might be minutes. If older, it might be hours, or it might be the next day. Practice and you'll find out how long to wait between orgasms to make the second one last as long as you want.

  • Not very romantic, but a BJ to in-mouth finish with skilled second-knuckle anal/prostate play is a gift of heaven.

    • I think id like to know more bout that? what do you do with your knuckle on the prostate? x

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