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Please help me get over my fear of swallowing?

I love sucking my guy off and making him come but I REALLY HATE to swallow... It tastes really gross, like bad fishy soap and its slimy and then I think about the little sperms wriggling around in my mouth and down my throat and it makes me puke. I have to spit, then brush my teeth. I know this is insulting but I can't help it. I've tried and tried over and over but cant. I REALLY want to be able to swallow it for him and I feel bad that I can't :( Can someone please help me with suggestions on how I can get over this and do it, and enjoy it. Thanks.
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  • Is he really asking for this a lot?

    If yes, I think the best bet is the 'make sure he's shooting straight down your throat, not in the front of your mouth'. Its the easiest that way.

    If he's not begging for it, I don't think its necessary. Two equally (or more) hot things to me:

    - since it seems like you're okay with him finishing in your mouth, go with that. But don't have him finish, then run off and spit it out. Instead, suck it out, but don't keep a seal, let it run out of your mouth down his shaft, then rub it all over his penis with your hands.

    -have him finish on you. A lot of guys would rather finish on your face then be swallowed, and there are other good places to finish too (breasts, ass, legs, etc, etc, etc.

    - If you really dont' want it in or on you, just fire him off into the air. But try to make it fun and seem excited. Make it a contest to see how far you can get him to shoot or something. Is this as good? Probably not quite as good, no, but you're still showing enthusiasm and excitement about him shooting semen off, just in a different way.

  • First off, sperm "wriggling" is probably the same as the normal bacteria level in your mouth, just letting you know.

    I agree with Eithyy that if its really a problem don't feel like you must do it to please your guy. Lots of people don't like to swallow it. If you're into getting a little dirty some guys like it if you dribble it down your chin and onto your breasts. Or for that matter, let him come somewhere besides your mouth.

    Now, to address what you asked. If he tastes really bad it may be due to his diet. The more liquids and fruits/vegetables he has the better it will taste. Pineapple especially has been held up as a winner, get him some juice.

    For technique advice I'd say hold your tongue towards the roof of your mouth and let him shoot under it (I know it sounds tricky but I've heard this helps) then swallow fast like you would a vitamin or pill.

    Good luck but remember you're doing him the favor of sucking him, swallowing is a preference he can't force on you.

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  • Well you use the word "fear." Now I definitely agree that you shouldn't feel you have to do anything you don't want to do. But (if you know he's disease-free) there really is absolutely nothing to "fear." I absolutely love doing this and making him come, and just view swallowing it as part of the fun. Of course I've never tasted your guy's come (well, not that I know of, LOL), but my guy''s isn't so bad. There's really nothing "gross" about come, And the individual sperm can't do you any harm. You just digest. So my advice is don't do it if you don't want, but try not to be pointlessly afraid either. Enjoy.

  • if he finishes in the back of your throat (while you're sucking! and focusing on the front of your mouth) and you swallow you'll barely even feel the consistency. and you won't taste it at all. if it's the thought about sperm just chilling there, don't worry they'll all die in your stomach or even before. also they are super tiny and you don't think about the bacteria in your food do you? same thing. if nothing else you can keep a drink on your nightstand to "chase". good luck! it's a matter of trusting yourself to enjoy the entire experience.

  • lol. honestly I'm a swallow kind of girl and I just don't know how I got used to just swallowing it without tasting it because it goes straight down my throat lmao. practice I guess. but sometimes when he ate fish for lunch/dinner id rather him come in my face or somewhere else. ;) and have a bottle of water handy so you can rinse the taste in your mouth.

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  • Have him drink pineapple juice! It makes it sweet. Just like a glass before you start is fine. Don't feel obligated to swallow if you don't want to. It should be a fun and natural thing to do.

  • Honestly dear, if you hate it that much don't force yourself to do it. Your boyfriend should understand and not care.

    • I agree. You still can have oral sex, which you enjoy, and just ask him to let you know when he's about to come so he won't do it on your mouth. That way you can both enjoy it.

  • You could wash it down with some spermicide. That way they won't be wriggling when they go down. Although spermicide is probably toxic when ingested orally :P.

    Actually, I agree with eithyy, I would understand if I was your partner, and I think he should too. Maybe explain it to him, hopefully he can understand.

    Alternatively, perhaps think about the reality that they are very basic micro-organisms that carry little more than a message. When they enter your stomach they die. Additionally, if you practice eating raw eggs that may help with dealing with the flavour and texture. Secondly any that remain in your teeth, will likely die due to the environment being unsuitable.

    As for the flavour perhaps keep some flavoured mouthwash on standbye and something like a glass of cola.

  • Tell him to eat healthier... What the guy eat determines the taste of his semen...

    • The girl above you said her guy are fish and fish is extreamely healthy! Yet she says his semen tasted horrible!

  • Since they havn't said it I will... spitters are quitters. lol ( not really but someone had to say it) don't force yourself into it lol

  • Don't swallow; you don't have to.

    There, feel better?

  • Don't swallow! It has sugar, salt and a bunch of other crap. Bad for you. Not worth it.

    • Neither of those is bad for you. And it also has things like protein and vitamins - so none of it's really bad for you. Even so, lets say it was just pure sugar and salt. There's like.. what? a table spoon, maybe two?

    • Actually, it has antibiotics along with chemicals that, when diffused into your blood, make you happier. If it would come in pill or liquid gel form, I'd be okay with it. But have you ever tried taking fish oil by the spoon? It's great for you, but eww. That's how I feel about sperm.

    • I think she was being sarcastic.

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  • If its in your mouth then just swallow it, you have already tasted it... if your spitting, then no doubt your holding in your mouth for longer then you would swallowing it...

    f anything, swallowing the come of a healthy male may in fact be good for you, since it is a highly concentrated source of protein, minerals, natural sugars, and other nutrients.

    Try this:-

    The Joy of Swallowing

    link

    Why you SHOULD swallow cum

    link

    and finally...

    100 blowjob swallowing tips

    link

  • fishy soap-lol

  • i think it doesn't matter to your friend .maybe he just be interested in lrocess of

    blow job

  • Same problem except my husband really wants me to do it. I have a couple times and didn't die but it's extremely hot going down and salty and I always feel like I'm gonna throw up after.. my advice to you however is it's not as bad when you've been drinking or pop a jolly rancher or something in ur mouth before u start. It might help with the taste

    • That seems smart lol

  • Are you aroused a lot? I think the more you are aroused the more things you can do. If you are not aroused, try being in moment near orgasm yourself.

    I myself often want to eat my own sperm, but the more I am aroused, the more I want. Problem guys have is they think they want their sperm, but quickly after orgams, they do not want. So the idea is to get sperm during the most aroused time. I found a way shooting into my mouth using a funnel.

    I found this thread by searching that I am afraid to share even to my best girl gender friends who we talk about sex because what if they will tell to somebody else.

    I had even found a video some day of this but can't find now.

  • I would imagine All guys like doing this to a girl!.. I find nothing hotter than cumming in a girls mouth, though.. There are also many other places he could come where you don't have to taste it./ Face, breasts, ass, feet, etc.. And honestly.. They All turn me on!. You could also get him to change his diet and eat healthier.. As the saying goes "you are what you eat!".. Get him to consume more sweet fruits like pineapple. I've also heard strawberries and watermelon help to get a guys cum sweeter!. Even pineapple juice would do the job!. I've heard smoking, drinking and any other toxic substance can make for foul cum, though I do all of them (though eat healthy) and have never had a complaint! ;)

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    • Lmao wow that was... Very insightful and funny at the same time...

  • If you don't want to you don't have to, just remember half of you was a wriggly sperm once ...

    as you get older you might get a taste for it but in the mean time don't do it...

  • Just think of it as a perverted vitamin.

  • You just have to tune into your inner dirty submissive slut

  • Spoon full of sugar helps the medicine go down

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