Is it ok to play with my girlfriends boobs while making out?

We've only gotten together recently and we're both our firsts so everything we do is pretty new to both of us. So much that sometimes I'm not sure if she's completely comfortable with something or not. She doesn't pull away or drag my hand away so I'm guessing it's alright. I've heard some people say that it's a turn-on for girls and others say it's not. Does it really turn girls on or is it just fun for the guy?

 

What's Your Opinion?

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Most Helpful Opinion

  • Hm, I think all woman are different. I don't think its a literal stimulation, but it enhances the mood. Do you understand? Its like she sees you getting excited and happy that your happy with her body so it amps her up. But then again its nice, I like it. If she lets you then I'd go for it. And I think its so sweet you 2 are both virgins. That way you both can lear 2gether.

What Girls Said 7

  • I definitely like it, its a turn on for me and usually a turn on for him

  • I think that depends on the girl and the guy. Why can't you just do what you are both comfortable with in your own relationship and stop worrying what others think? After all this is your relationship not anyone elses. communication is the key here I think.

  • Oh I like when my boyfriend fondles and plays with my boobs while we make out. It is a big turn-on for me and he always does that before he starts giving me oral. It gets me real wet and he likes when I'm already turned on before starts. lol.

  • i think is a major turn on.i love it when my boyfriend sucks on mine on jus play with my nipples. but it all depends on a girl.and if she does like it the best time to do it is when she's about to climax. don't pinch the mor anything just like lick them or a soft gentle bite always works.

  • For some girls a boob massage feels good. It sounds like she doesn't mind.But if you are unsure, its ok to ask her where her boundaries are. So that both of you feel comfortable.

  • its a turn on for me

  • i happen to love it when he sucks/nibbles/licks my nipples. I enjoy it and I'm pretty sure he does too

What Guys Said 3

  • You might want to ask her as you do things if she's okay with it. Remind her you'll only go as far as she's comfortable with? I'm sure that will make her feel much better if you're worried about making a wrong move.Also, I think we need more guys like you. You actually seem to CARE about her feelings. Fascinating. Keep it up, man.

  • well everybody is different, so some girls like it and some don't. but you have the perfect mind set. you said that you will keep going further and further in till she says something, or drags your hand away. that's perfect. she will let you know if she does not want you to do something. and if you do go a little to far just go back to what you were doing, don"t make a big deal and say that you are sorry or something like that. just back up a bit, and continue what you were doing. good luck man and if you do get lucky enough, make sure you have protection. its just a safe thing to do.

  • Hey...For my girlfriend its a huge turn on when I feel and suck on them. I hear her moan and she sorta presses into me when I do this. also when making out be sure not 2 ruin it, don't do anything stupid that could ruin the mood, be subtle don't rush into anything, when I was taking off my girlfriend shirt I didn't rapidly take it off I was looking straight at her and she then took over and took off her shirt and bra but she loves making out so I didn't get so much action on them but it was amazing dude. don't force anything and let her take control for parts of the time she really gets turned on by it when she lies on top of me and we make out and I feel her up.

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