What's too far when it comes to grinding in clubs?

[Anonymous]

So I just graduated and am moving back home to the big city, we go clubbing a lot when I'm home on vacation but I usually just dance with friends. Since I'll be back for good we will be clubbing a lot and I want to grind on some random hot girls, maybe pull some numbers. My question is do you girls mind it when some random guy just comes up on you or is that what your waiting for and what is to far, would you care if I rub your upper inner thigh or grab your ass. I don't want to be creep but I want to enjoy the moment and have fun.

[TipHoneyDipp]

NEVER NEVER touch a girl you don't really know in that kind of way. Ladies kind of lead the way. Personally If I'm filling him in the club I move his hands to the appropriate places. Also its okay to walk up and dance with a girl If your not going to come off rude. That's just my opinion. I am more likely to dance with a guy who walks up and starts dancing than a guy who asks. It shows he has confidence which Is a huge turn on. Plus if you ask it gives her time to turn you don't if she looks at you and think she not interested. Reality when you first meet someone you usually judge them in the first three seconds. So go for it just don't offend anyone you may end up slapped. That's just my opinion not all women are the same.

[NotJustAnotherGuy]

Don't do it, unless she's giving you the rights vibes (e.g. leading your hands there). Great answer.

[Anna19]

Some girls do like it, some don't and it also depends on their mood and how many guys hit on them before u. It's like gambling your just gonna have to try

about what goes too far. I think touching is OK for most girls, but I'd stay away from the boobs and butt. inner thighs are a little risky too, but some may like it. Opening her bra or even trying to, is a no go. And by the way if a guy gets a boner that's kinda creepy

[anynymoooooose]

Creepy? But you're grinding on him. He doesn't have a choice.

[Anna19]

He doesn't have a choice? really? that easy? anyways I still don't like it. Makes me umcomfortable because I don't know what to do. Can't help it

[NotJustAnotherGuy]

Yeah.. he kinda doesn't have a choice when grinding..

[madcat44]

please don't touch my crotch/ass you could hold me but not there... and its better if you wait to ask me to dance with you. randomly coming up to me and grinding is too aggressive. you're better off asking a girl to dance then randomly grinding on her...

[NotJustAnotherGuy]

First sentence kinda made me laugh. But yeah, unless you think you are the king of all alpha males, she's probably right. You shouldn't just go up and touch her crotch/ass, unless you're 100% sure she won't mind. Because if she does mind, that's sexual harassment and you're a sexual predator. Eek!

[Anonymous]

1. This depends on how hot you are. Sorry, but if you're ugly and trying to grind in a club women are not going to go for it.

2. This depends on the girl you're trying to grind on. If she's looking for that sort of action then absolutely she will want to grind with you (as long as she finds you hot, see #1). However, if she's just out with friends or to have a good time and dance you are crossing the line big time if you suddenly start grinding on her and grabbing her (can lead to anything from you being sworn at to you getting your ass kicked).

[Anonymous]

Touching and feeling is waay too far for dancing. Scummy scummy scummy. Grinding is bad enough in itself. It's super awkward for other people to see that too.