My dad saw me giving my boyfriend a blowjob?

[Anonymous]

We were in my basement, but there's a window on the side and in the back because of the slope of the yard. The blinds were shut, but apparently you can see into the side window even when they're shut from my neighbors yard. Well, guess where my dad was? Yeah, in my neighbor's yard. He didn't say anything, he just came back into the house and came downstairs and told us it was time for my boyfriend to go home. I didn't think anything of it. Then today, he was lecturing me about coming home at midnight after not telling anyone where I was, and whatever, because I didn't come home from my boyfriend's house until midnight last night, and apparently my parent's didn't know I went to his house after his brother's game which I went to, But while he was on the topic, he brought it up, and said he didn't say anything earlier because he needed time to calm down. He said he wasn't gonna punish me, but he was really upset. I feel really bad, because I've always been my daddy's little girl, and I know I really disappointed him.I don't know how to gain his trust back. What do I do?

[TheAnswerer]

What you did was not wrong. Since you're over 18, you can engage in any form of sexual activity without feeling guilt.

However, your dad seems to not understand that, so try not to confront him about this. Just say you're sorry and that you will not engage in sexual activities (even though you will).

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Try calling him once per every hour or so (while you're with your boyfriend). It increases your mobile phone bills, but after a couple of days, your dad will probably think that he's being too unreasonable not to trust you and will tell you that you don't have to call him all the time.

[Gcellis]

For the people saying its non of dads business im pretty sure it his damn house. And his "basement" so its very much so his business. Yes it her body but have some respect for your father and dont uck your boyfriend off under his roof, especially when he's there. Like whats up with people nowadays. Go to a motel, get your own place. Dont use your parents houae as a brothel

[toulouse]

you R at least 18. none of dads business- its actually really creepy of him to bring it up. punish you - for what? I mean if he doesn't want it going down in his basement OK, rule no b j in basement , but what you do with your body or your b f is none of his business. You didn't even have any obligation to talk to him about it. its your body your life.

maybe you are under 18? well stil age of consent in many places is 16 where do you live...

[fluffermuffin]

you're dad took it way better than most parents would have and just remember he'll always see you as daddys little girl just give it time and maybe don't go out so late for a bit or give up a date with the boyfriend and hang with your dad

[toulouse]

It says 18- 24 its none of his business irregardless how he sees her.and as a woman she shouldn't be seen or treated as a little girls its degrading. This is not about how he saw her, its about how he's treating her - big difference.

[peace-love-couture]

Toulouse,I see where you're coming from,but if she's always been "daddy's little girl" she wants to keep it that way.Being daddy's little girl is about having a good and special relationship with your dad,girls tend to look up to their dad's

[SCU2013]

Well if she's still living with her parents, I know most parents say that "As long as your in my house you live by my rules..." which I think is how it should be, yes she's an adult, but if she wants her own rules and freedom she should get out lol. plain and simple. and as far as the whole situation....fluffermuffin said it well

[sucker4ashedevil]

Its okay-- its only natural. Dad needs to understand that you are a Princess. Just be extra nice to him and maybe lie to him and tell him you broke up with that guy. It all about manipulating your dad to get what you want!

[toulouse]

Thats b s she doesn't have to lie she over 18 , furthermore, if they were both OK with it- there is nothing wrong with what they were doing. Its peculiar & creepy for her dad to bring it up- majorly creepy.