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Why do American women make such a big deal of multiple abortions?

Women in Cuba are more lax about it. It isn't a big deal to us. Why is it for them. I've had 3. So what? It's an easy fix. What's the big deal. It's not a life, just a clump of cells. Besides in Cuba a woman can get as many abortions as she wants. I think in America they can do the same. Only difference is in cuba no one judges you for it. It's not a big deal to us. I guess American women are just sensitive.
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  • I think abortion is wrong and evil and the people who are for them and get them are the worst horrible disgusting putrid scum of the Earth. I hate when people try to make it about the baby, unless the child has a decease like Ta sacks or ADL where they will die a slow painful death there is no reason to consider an abortion, even then it would be something to really think about. To the woman who say they have a right to their body and reproductive freedom, what about the babies right to live. The baby should not have to die just because you slept around and did not know how to use a condom. Even if the case of rape, the baby did not rape you and should therefore not have to suffer. Adoption is always an option. To the men who say they would want and make their girlfriend have an abortion because you don't want to have a kid, or your not ready for a kid, then you should do something to make sure she is not in a position to get pregnant. Adoption is always an option, because their are so many families out there who would want and love a wonderful gift of a baby and be able to treat it right, that their is never a need for an abortion other than being evil cruel and selfish. If you do not want a kid close your legs, and tie your tubes. And yes a fetus is a living thing, it can cry kick move have hair and finger nails, and even hear sounds. Even when it is just a little tiny cell by definition of living things it is alive, and thereby by making it not alive you are committing an horrible act of murder on an innocent baby. Why do you think they have special doctors and pills and precautions that to you have to take when you are pregnant? To protect the baby, because it is a fragile but living none the less being. It is a person, but not just a person, your child, you have a duty as it mother to protect it for 9 months and then keep it or give it up for adoption to a loving family. So even if you home life and situation would not provide for a safe and happy environment for a baby, you can give it up, and give it to a stable loving an caring family that you can meet and interview and choose prior to having the baby to ensure that it will have the best possible start, an then you could never hear from the baby again. Or your could have an open adoption and still be apart of your child's life even if you can't be the mother in the most common sense. You mother chose to allow you to live and grow, even if she was a horrible mother, she did that much, so you owe it to her, to pass on the gift of life. Say all of this to say there is never EVER a reason to have an abortion. Oh, if someone kills a pregnant woman they get charged with double homicide , why? Because the baby is alive, and so if you have an abortion you have no excuse, no reason, and your are just horrible, evil, vile, cruel, sadistic, monstrous being who dose not deserve to walk this earth because if you can kill not only a baby but a child you do not deserve to go on your merry way slut!

    • that an extreme view..i can see how group like al quida justify using violence with extremism like this. a baby can change both the guy's and girl's life dramatic ,even set back careers and future. and there nothing wrong with sex because it is a a natural need just like sleeping and eating. and condom and birth control are not gurantee. what if accident happens? abortion offers a way out of that. if you are stubborn on pro-life, then you put yourself down the road to a hard future.

    • Then if you are not in a posistion to care for, raise, and love a child and in a stable safe and loving marriage I really do not think you should be having sex when you are in the position to but a child in the world that you will just kill or resent forever.

  • Because Americans are spoiled and see themselves as the center of the universe. They can afford to be pro-life because there is so much food and money in the US that people can just go around popping out babies for no reason and turn it into a moral perogative, meanwhile self righteously putting down other people who are not as privileged.

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  • No,American women use logic;birth control,condoms,IUD's.

    May Fidel Castro rise

    Oh then again,Latin Americans tend to be dumbasses in general,so that helps.Over here in America,Hispanics have the highest teenage pregnancy rate and highest high school drop out rate and this is coming from a Hispanic

    • Well they should've gotten abortions

    • Or closed their legs. Or been more intelligent and used birth control.

    • Whatever works for them

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  • That suprises me...Isnt cuba a hardcore Catholic country?

  • Using a condom is an easy fix, having an abortion is not.

    • To you maybe, but to me and many women like me it is

    • Its not an easy fix, its using it as birth control and that is wrong! Get the pill, and use a condom

    • Nothing is wrong with using it as birth control

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  • Cause after the first abortion, you'd think you'd be intelligent enough to slip a condom on the next time you had sex. The 'clump of cells' is a living creature that was you at one point. Imagine if your mother had aborted you, you wouldn't even be here asking this dumb question. So please grow a brain and use some f***ing conraception.

    • No

  • I'm someone who's pro abortion because I believe if a woman is raped and gets pregnant she shouldn't have to have that baby, also because sometimes "the pill" won't be effective or a condom will break. BUT (and there is a HUGE "BUT" here) getting accidentally pregnant multiple times because of not using any form of contraception and having abortions like they're trips to the mall is just fvcking ignorant and irresponsible. Having an abortion is something that should be viewed as a last resort when it comes to making sure you don't have a child and not an "easy fix". It's an ABORTION not a goddamned bikini wax!

    • What difference does it make if I have one two three even one hundred. I don't care

    • And that's^ the very reason why you're ignorant and irresponsible: because you "don't care".

  • Troll.

    Second, abortion shouldn't be used as your primary birth control, special ed. I don't care how lax it is in Cuba. The long term damage to your body isn't exactly the best, either.

    • I don't want children, so me becoming infertile wouldn't bother me.

    • Well thank god you don't want kids, because people like you should get bred out of the population and NOT reproduce. You sound like a weirdo.

  • Go get your damn tubes tied. Do all of the future lives to be murdered a favor. You're an irresponsible nhit-whit.

    • It's not murder. murder by american definition is illegal

    • Oh my goodness. 1st: Cells are living. 2nd: If cuba was an intellegent nation, they would use contraception methods and hand them out freeley to the nations people, but cuba is lacking in common damn sense. 3rd. Why the hell don't you just get your damn tubes tied? Fourthly: You and all others who think like you are just plain ridiculous, and may God have mercy on your patheitc souls. :)

    • 1. most cells are living doesn't make them special. like stepping on an ant. 2 cuba is doing fine, american is the one doing economically bad. 3. too expenisive abortions are free in cuba i don't believe in god.

  • I see abortion as murder. Regardless of whether or not it can function outside of the womb, the fetus growing inside you is still a life. Those people have no heart, because they have no problem taking away that child's chance at life.

    • I still have the right to remove it from my body

    • well you can think that. but the mother should still have the right to do so. threatening doctors and pregnancy women not to abort is extermism and no different from terrorism.

  • Maybe the problem is because we're not from Cuba and we use condoms *the majority anyways* Just think that you murder 3 humans and I'm guessing you're going to be doing more in the future. Use a condom. They are cheaper & you don't have the guilt of killing innocent humans who don't have a fighting chance. You're the only one fighting for them, but obviously you don't care enough to do so.

    • I don't care about a few clumps of cells

    • Than you're just inhuman

    • If you say so

  • Well how bout you try usin ah condom slut or get yo tubes tied and stop getting abortions or jus TAKE YO A** 2 CUBA! because if yo mama would ah had an abortion you wouldn't even b here!

    • I spell better than you and I'm not even from here

    • Girl you look stupid and sound it too. You don't spell better than anybody, if you really want me to sit here and spell words fully here you go!!!!

  • It shows you're incredibly irresponsible and possibly a slut.

  • It's not about being sensitive. It's about valuing a life...something you obviously have no idea about

    • By life you mean clump of cells? I have no care in the world for it. it's like getting rid of a dirty tampon.

    • It's not a clump of cells. it's a life that's growing inside of you

    • Btw, plenty of women are unable to get pregnant when they really want a baby because they had abortions and I really hope you will never have a baby

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  • I hope you get hit by a bus. That will be natural selection at work.

    • I'm guessing your a pro-lifer as americans say

    • I'm guessing you didn't get hit by that bus yet. So unfortunate, it is.

    • Nope how unfortunate you didn't either

  • Everyone is different, some are for it, some against. Like said before birth controll like condoms, the pill ect should be used first. However I believe that if those measures are used and fail abortion should be an option. But it itself should not be a form of birth control.

  • I agree with you. Women should at least have the choice. I mean everybody's different.

  • wow please tell that to the guys who are always talking about how "messed up" american women are! personally I think abortions are wrong, unless it is a severe and extreme circumstance, but to use it as a form of birth control? I am not trying to judge people but I would feel like sh*t if I had to kill a child of mine, I just think that is sad and it is a big deal. not like getting a bunion removed or something. also can't getting multiple abortions mess up your fertility in the long run? I would be worried about that also...btw its not just american WOMEN that are sensitive about abortion a lotta american MEN are too

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