you should call yourself human;) I have to admit if I was giving a guy a lap dance and he got a boner it'd turn me on even more and I might even get wet...you have to think...these girls are rubbing against you man...if you're that nervous go spank it in the bathroom with motion lotion;) hehe I honestly can't believe I just said that but seriously it's hotter when a guy has a boner...not sure why but it is and it's a huuuge compliment when we know that we're the reason for it. they won't throw you out for doing your job as far as cumming in your pants...umm you're on your own on that one. that happened with me once but he ran to the bathroom so umm not really sure what to tell you with that one. stay close to the bathroom?
At a strip club its a bit different. The girls don't care. I'm sure they see it enough that's its just part of the job environment. You may want to hide it if you don't want to be talked into buying a private dancing or spending more money. I'm sure its something the girls look for to see how much money you'd probably spend.
I'm not positive about what would happen if you cum, but as long as you keep it in your pants, you should be the only one suffering and not making a mess, so I imagine you should be fine.
It's common, but if you whip it out and come on a dancer you will be violently tossed out
Well I'm sure the girls deal with them a lot. They kind of expect it and when the guy doesn't get one that might mean they're either gay or she's doing a horrible job, so I don't think they would have a problem with it unless you were purposely grinding it or rubbing it against her. And its kinda embarassing to walk around a bunch of other guys while your pitching a tent so just hide it.
Seeing a guy walk arounf with a boner is totally hot...... yet my boyfriend still hides it when I give himone in public *sigh* haha
Lol BWA828 I think I like you ;D
You *might* be able to get away with getting an erection during a lap dance at a strip club in America. Strip clubs are the one and *only* kind of place in America where women might be okay feeling a guy's boner stabbing her and the guy not going to jail for attempted rape because he got an erection and she felt it. But stick with the dancers only.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You're kind of supposed to get one, with a naked woman grinding in your lap and all. In fact, if you *don't* get one, some dancers will be insulted.
If you cum, keep quiet, and tip well.
Just pretend it didn't happen. If she wants to notice it, she will.
It's natural to become aroused in these situations - most women won't be surprised, providing you're not masturbating. If you come then that is likely to be because a woman has been stimulating you, and it is unlikely that you would be thrown out.
Don't do anything with it that is how you get thrown out!
It's a strip club. Proudly hoist the flag on that poll.
as a very goodlooking man, (so I'm told, by 2 many women ,lol !) I nver get this pole danceing bit. Never find it sexy. wassup there ? tht said, why you go to strip clubs. to do community work, be a missionary, save the thrird world, help blind folk across the street ? don't think so, erection is the obvious reason, then again, how stooopid am I ?
They won't notice. You must still be pretty young if you think someone can notice your erection through your pants in the dark of a club.
If you come in your pants from a lap dance, that's pretty pathetic man. Not being mean, just saying. It is totally normal to get a hard on from one though, one stripper liked that I did and complimented me.
I said don't hide it chances are they expect it and besides if I was the girl I would just get more into it...
if I was the girl id just rub my ass on it all the more I love making men horny...
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