Are you judging her horniness on only the fact that she's not wet? Because you need to keep in mind that some women can't get wet. Some take a lot to get them wet and some can't get wet at all. In which case if she can't try some really good lubricants, it will make things a lot more fun for her because there won't be that friction.
Try this- my guy did this and it made me wild:
Get a peppermint Altoid and crunch it up, and place some of it in her va-jay-jay and start giving her oral. Its going to feel real cold for her. Then slide up and start humping- it will start feeling real hot, like burning hot, and amazing too.
It can also work for BJs.
Your right altoids are a lot better then just regular peppermints,they get a little sticky. But they can use whatever is available.
I might need to try this now...
That sounds like you could get an infection from it, lol
How about trying to touch with your tongue instead. I always get so wet and horny just as soon as I know my boyfriend is gonna be going down on me. He's learned how to give me fantastic oral, and by the time he's made me come I'm soo wet but he's so good at taking care of that. That should do it for you.
I l ike this! lol!
I agree, try your tongue. your fingers may just be too rough. or maybe just not sure on technique (with her) I think some guys should ask other guys & girls suggestions on how to do so too. Sometimes some just really have that all wrong. Just licking it doesn't really mean that is going to do it. its all about the technique in how you are doing it as well. after you are using your tongue on her bean then you can use your finger inside too while doing that at the same time.
What you said makes so much sense. It is very important to learn how to pleasure a girl correctly so that she gets the maximum pleasure from the guy's tongue, from his sucking and his fingers too. My boyfriend is so good at that now, but it took awhile to get my ex to learn how to really get into it. Once he did, it made all the difference in the world. The right technique is so important too like you said because I'm sure each girl is different. Girls appreciate guys that do it right.
Oral.
But besides what works for the each individual, just simply ask her. Ask her what she would like you to do to make her wet before sex.
Awesome advice...all you gotta do is ask and try things till something works.
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In all seriousness though, you should go down on her first and get her ready.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!To be completely honest it sounds like she isn't attracted to you and doesn't want to be sexual with you. If she's "complaining" when you try to finger her, it obviously isn't something she wants.
If she was attracted to you you wouldn't have to put a lot of effort into turning her on.
She might even be asexual?
If you want a sex life this probably isn't the girl for you
And are you actually 27?
How about you start kissing her softly and you rub her breast and tease her and make her want you more than ever
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