my wife says that any women who say they like swallowing semen or letting a guy come in their mouth are lying. She used to do it until about a year or two after we got married now I get the old "stop me before it blows" line.
i actually really do enjoy the act of swallowing. not because I think the come tastes great or anything like that, but I feel like its the only proper way to finish of a blow job. I get so turned on by having him still in my mouth while he is cumming. I thought it was gross before I ever tried it, but now, I can't imagine not swallowing after giving a bj.
I think the reason your wife has become this way is because the need to impress you has gone! As a new relationship blossoms a women generally will do many things to keep the guy happy swallowing being one of them!
I still swallow after 2 years with my fella for 2 reasons, one for I love to be really dirty an I feel this is something which my guy appreciates but also because I think to spit it out is disgusting!
I think your women is correct but incorrect in saying any women who says they enjoy it are lying because I can't say I like it but I wouldn't do it if I disliked it, I guess its something some women "get used to"
I don't like it a lot and actually I don't think many girls do.Most probably don't mind it either, so they just do it becuase it turns guys on (for what reason ever) And of course there are some that hate it, but in that case she probably wouldn't have done that for you so long. But to be honest I haven't met a single girl who says she especially loves swallowing,most just don't care much
Like already has been said, when you're in fresh in a new relationship you do things to impress your partner, even though you don't absolutley love it.
Of course I can't speak for every man, but I'll try anyway.
The most satisfying BJ finishes with us coming while she is still sucking and stroking. A sudden stop/withdrawal and coming in the open air either still stoking or (worse) that stopped too takes away 50% of the satisfaction of a BJ.
The best finish has the girl knowing the moment when ejaculation starts. At that point, intense stimulation should stop as well, replaced by hand-milking the p3nis under moderate vacuum with head movement in "in step" with hand milking., stopping with the last contraction, but holding moderate vacuum. Then, after a minute or so, her hand and mouth should go down as far as comfortable, with one last "good to the last drop" firm sucking/milking pull. Yowza!
It's never pleasant for them even if they are motivated to do it. Think in terms of Clorox-flavored snot. You may want to evaluate what you are doing for her. If you are not giving her slobbering, ground shaking oral sex, she does not have much incentive to give it to you. If you are doing this, it may be time for conversation.