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Does giving a lot of blow jobs make me a whore?

Just curious on what people think of this. I like sex too but I have only had you know vaginal sex with two guys but I have given a lot of blow jobs. I really love giving bjs I have no clue why because a lot of girls hate it, but from the time I gave my very first one I was a natural. I can do it all kinds of ways depending on what the guy likes, I can take d*** really far back into my throat without gagging too much, I don't mind swallowing come or having it on my face or anywhere really, etc. Its fun and they usually go down on me as well. I know some people even think blow jobs don't count as actual sex. before I had vaginal sex way back, a guy told me that even if I had done anal or oral I was still a virgin. So what do you guys think? If I have given blow jobs to a lot of men does that make me a whore or slut or do you guys only apply that to girls who have lots of vaginal sex with lots of men? tell me what you think please!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It does not make you a whore, a slut, or whatever else you are worried about. Those are simply just words that people apply to others, often without knowing all that much about them. What it does make you, is you. Thats who you are. Be proud of it, if you enjoy it, do it safely, without worrying about what anyone else thinks. Just because you enjoy giving blowjobs doesn't make you a whore. Pay no attention to the word. At all. Ever. Be YOURSELF, and do what makes you happy. Life is too short to live avoiding being labeled by people who frankly dont mean a damned thing to you. There will always be those who say this or that, and good for them. They can say what they want. But it doesn't change you at all, nor should it change your self image. I think its wonderful that you enjoy doing it and that "labels" aren't stopping you. To the idiots who say you can't trust a girl like that, I've been married to one exactly like this poster for 5 years. Stop telling people that how they feel is wrong, what they enjoy will make them unwanted by other men. None of it is true. Unfortunately, when asking for a guys opinion about anything to do with sex, you're more likely to get a personal, biased, off target response. Thats just guys. There are those however who aren't like that, just ignore the haters, either they dont get enough blowjobs themselves and theyre jealous, or theyre just tools. there's no reason that you should let a label or two dictate wether or not you do something you enjoy. My wife was embarased to talk to me about that part of her past for the same reason, and i told her the same thing. Its a part of who you are. Sex is a natural part of life. Wether someone calls you a slut or a whore is their closed minded opinion, and they should just keep their mouths shut before judging others. Be safe in what you do. But if you love it. Do it. Life is over fast, were here to enjoy the ride, not listen to the idiots along the way. Be proud of your sexuality, if someone doesn't accept you over it, thats not who you need to be with. Best of luck and best wishes!

  • It’s not the blow jobs or your love of sex that cause some to say you’re a whore or slut. It’s the many casual partners. If you had only one partner likely no one would care, but having many partners subjects you to a double standard intended to keep your sexuality in line. It’s that backward chauvinist notion that men can’t control their passions, boys will be boys, but women should know better.

    Morality aside, your behavior is no more wrong than that of a man with similar appetites. In a perfect world, you would not be condemned any more than men who choose the same path. However, that’s not the world we live in.

    It’s a cruel double standard the only words in the English language for women with many casual partners are demeaning and degrading while those for men are complimentary, even flattering. When men have many partners they’re players, playboys or studs, but when a woman does the same she’s a slut, a whore or a cunt. There’s not much you can do about that other than live your life as you choose and make no apologies for doing so, regardless of what others may say or do. This is a prejudice only time and more open minds can change.

    Finally, be glad you’re not shackled by inhibition and thoroughly enjoy sex. Your genuine enthusiasm is incredibly sexy and nothing to be ashamed of. One day you’ll want to be with one man and share a committed life together. Whoever you choose will count himself lucky to have you, because it’s every man’s dream to be with a woman who truly loves sex and every man’s nightmare to be with one who does not.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If you're sexually active yet worried about being perceived as a whore or slut,you shouldn't be doing what you're doing:

    1)You aren't mature enough to realize sex is personal,blasting it around WILL get you labeled

    2)It's your choice and if you're worried about it you shouldn't be doing it

    Plenty of girls do what you do and they accept their actions and the fact that they could be labeled.

    I personally do not believe in degrading girls or guys for having sex

  • It doesn't make you a whore or a slut. It means you enjoy oral sex and that's all it means. So for heavens sake enjoy yourself and have fun sucking cock and swallowing cum. Make sure the guys you're having sex with don't have any STDs. You do that by having them get tested negative _before_ you have sex with them. :)

  • it's not really the bj part that makes you a whore... it's the tons of men you've been with without having any emotional attachment to them...

    if you love giving head to your boyfriend or SO and do it 50 times a day it still doesn't make you a whore

    hope that makes sense

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  • I think the term "slut" really applies to your sense of standards, not so much the quantity of activities.

    If you are the kind of girl who will give anyone a blowjob just for asking because you love doing it and could care less who's **** it is - well then you'd be kind of a slut.

    However, if you like a guy, are dating him and you blow him off a lot, then it doesn't work out so you date another guy and so on, that's not really slutty, that's just a girl who is dating and loves to suck d***.

    Again, it boils down to how easily you are offering your mouth and how picky you are about your customers.

    • By your definition I'm a slut then. most of the time it isn't a guy I'm dating although I do care whose it is. I'm not gonna blow a dirty guy on the street or something. I have to be attracted and like them but I don't have to date them. anyway thanks for answering

    • Well then you're a slut. big deal, I'm not judging. Might as well own it and not get down on yourself for it. Think about a p*rn star who takes being a slut to a proud level and turns it into a career. Guys everywhere worship them despite labeling them. Love who you are, and if who you are is a d*** sucking slut, then so be it. Frankly it's kind of a turn on to think about a sexually confident girl - just like Samantha from Sex in the City. She's absolutely a slut. And everyone loves her for it.

  • These eff'n chumps below calling you a slut and whatnot are total douche bags. Humans are sexual beings male and female. Screw it. Have fun! If you enjoy it, do it! Just be safe about it. That being said, are you available? lol

    Again, don't listen to the idiots below. Chances are they've bedded some total fat skanks boyfriend and they're projecting their guilt onto you! ;)

    • So in other words, you'd be OK with being in a relationship with a woman that has a history of being a whore and you could trust her, am I right?

    • I would be more than okay with that. I am a firm believer that if you have it in you, you have to get it out. Would it not be better she do that sh*t when she can? Rather than being married for so many years and have a burning desire to fulfill those desires behind her husband's back? I say, get it out. Sucking a d*** does NOT make a woman a whore. C'mon man...

    • A woman that's a whore should be treated like a sex object. Women that are whores are selfish and have a small heart. Rather then staying with one man and showing love to him for a long time she goes around having lame one-night-stands and increase the rate of STD's. I think that women that are whores eventually settle for a relationship because her good looks are fading or have faded and can't use her looks to get the guys she wants. Then when I'm married I won't feel like I'm a lucky guy.

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  • Well, a whore can just get naked while guys get themselves off in front of her, unless she's a stripper or something naturally. Its engaging in some sort of sexual act. But in my eyes, a whore is someone who does it to whoever, whenever and without asking why. You know? Like a professional whore, but without the payment, hahaha.

  • in general the double standard in society would tell you that your a whore for having too much sex and enjoying your natural desires too much. But that's all a load of bullsh*t! I'm a whore according to society for sure but I'm proud of myself for it :)

  • If you do it to only one guy, you are cool... if you do it to many many guys, for money or for fun, then you are a whore.

    • Exactly!

  • Having sex or giving a lot of blow jobs does not make you a slut, in fact it's a good thing, cause you are enjoying yourself sexually. A slut is really how it is done and really each persone has their own definition of a slut and even that depends on the circumstances. If a girl cheats on a guy by losing her virginity to another guy, some people would call her a slut, but a girl who sleeps with several men, but is honest and straight forward to all of them is not a slut. So really, just have fun, enjoy life, but make sure what you do you will be proud of 20 or 30 years down the road.

    And also, loving to give bjs is not that uncommon, just the women who don't like it tend to be more vocal about it.

  • No. That makes you popular.

    Getting PAID to give a lot of BJs would make you a whore.

  • I personally think that it is great that you admit this openly. As a male, I like to eat pussies, but it has its own nay-sayers, too. Some men think it is unmanly to go down on a girl, and some women think that it is disgusting. Blow jobs get the same reaction form certain groups, but so what? In a free world, we should be able to do what we want with any other willing person, as long as we do not interfere with anyone else. And you won't get pregnant that way, either, and supposedly your skin will age better from all of the nutrients. Maybe if more world leaders had their dicks sucked, we would have fewer wars... Suck all the dicks you want. Just be careful about the health risks.

  • Why does us guys having lots of sex make us "just a guy" but a woman having lots of sex, even if it is just oral, make her a whore. You are entitled to have as much sex anyway you want. It is your body, your mouth, and may I say thank you for swallowing because most women won't and it is frustrating.

    You go girl, suck away.

  • yea you are

  • i think so your husband has to kiss that mouth. I find oral sex to be more major then vaginal sex because a man has to kiss you he doesn't have to go down so do what you like just don't do it with me lol

  • no!...but be true with at least one!

  • No as ong as your just doing it to 1 guy

  • Only if you're charging...

  • Do you honestly like it that much? 😍😍 Who cares what I think of your moral compass that sounds great lol I honestly wish more women actually liked it. Follow me if you'd like.

  • only if you get paid for it

  • no it dose not make you a whore or so would I lol

  • Simply put, YES !

    Stop and think about it, what guy in his right mind would want a relationship (long term) with a girl who has blew everyone of his friends.

  • I wish I could find a women like you because I like them more than vaginal sex but as for being a whore I don’t think it counts much if you don’t get fucked much or with many different guys

  • yes it does

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