Do you lose respect for girls when they perform oral sex on you?

[Anonymous]

Whether they're a brand new girlfriend, a long time relationship, or a fling, how do you feel when it comes to respecting them?

[archer86]

The simple fact that a particular woman is seeing me gains my respect. I'm no John Travolta and not going to be one either, meaning I'm the kind of "no-type" guy that most women would reject in favor of the taller, better looking younger men. Therefore, if she's willing to jump right into sex, all the better

[Anonymous]

I would not think positively if a new Date/GF jumped right into it. I would think she is concealing being shallow.

After an appropriate introductory period where we have gotten intimate and have started caring for each other? The emotion I would feel is gratefulness.

[peace-love-couture]

Sex only makes a guy think more positively of a partner(gf/wife)

Truth is,if you're worried about a guy losing respect over your for giving him a blowjob,only give them to boyfriends or guys you're in a relationship with,he won't lose respect for you.

[gravygirl]

I could maybe see a younger guy doing this, but not a guy around your age. It'd be ridiculous. Isn't that what he wants?

[l-hedoniste]

One girl gives me oral, another refuses. They both call, I'm ignoring one. Guess which one.

The girl I'm ignoring is the one I don't respect.

[apstraktna]

Can you explain this please? I kinda don't get the point 😅

[Littletad]

Not at all.

[Itsme2300]

Definitely no loss of respect. If anything more respect for the fact that you enjoy it that much or you want to please.

[GIntrovert]

I think I would only loose respect for a girl if I didn't know her, and she came along and tried to pull it out of my pants...

I would never loose respect for a girlfriend/friend/fwb after oral.. why would I?

[BlackSuperman]

Is this a joke? Lose respect after a girl gives a good BJ? Nope. Just makes us want it more.

[Oddjob]

No. Why would I lose respect for her?

[Anonymous]

i kno I wouldn't! but there are some guys who straight up scum bags 7 they will talk stuff after the girl does it tho!