My boyfriend has a small penis and it really gets to me?

My boyfriend has a small penis, and sometimes I don't like having sex with him because it doesn't give me much satisfaction and he is very average with oral. I make excuses not to have sex with him, he questions me as to why all the time. Should I tell him? I'm really confused because telling him won't make a difference and I love him a lot, I don't want to hurt him. I need help!
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  • Trust me if he's small he knows it but YES tell him. That is why he questions your lack of wanting to be with him, again trust me he's noticed your lack of desire and lack of interest and he knows it's because he's small and you don't enjoy sex with him. He needs you to acknowledge it and reassure (and will have to as long as your together) him even though he's small and even though he doesn't satisfy you, you love him and need him and your not going anywhere (again you'll have to do t b is a lt, we small men need it). But you deserve to be satisfied. My wife and I, married not 16 years even though with my penis I've made her orgasm problems than 10 times, have had many and will have many more about it. I have loved my wife since the second I saw her and because I couldnt imagine not having her in beginning (and even now) aND knowing she needed and deserved more I did and will do anythong. After a few years of sexual misery she cheated because I can't please her. It wasn't easy but we over came and because I had to admit to myself I was selfish to think she shouldn't have cheated. So I decided to do everything to keep her and we now have a GREAT sex life even thou c h I still don't please her. DON'T cheat, it's okay you need more. If you need help talking to him we can help

  • yes you are ryt that telling him will NOT MAKE ANY DIFFERENCE!...so just keep your bad feeling to yourself...and think how would it feel to receive comments and frustration from your boyfriend regarding your flat chested boobs if you were small...>>>it would really hurt u...ryt? so why to hurt him by complaining about his penis?

    if you really love him then LEARN TO COMPROMISE for your love...and if you don't then there's no point in why you should stay together!...and one more thing is that no1 is PERFECT in this world...all you can do is try and make yourself better than what you were...so if he don't satisfy u, you can tell him what to do to satisfy u, how to give you oral and all...or even just a few articles can make him a good giver!...so don't lose your hopes...>>>of course only if you really love him!

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  • just make it work make your sex life better try the kama sutra lol

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  • Why not just find a FWB who is excellent in bed but doesn't want a relationship to take care those needs for you on the side? haha, I volunteer... ;)

  • So he doesn’t please you

  • honestly, sex is a large part of a relationship. With that said it clearly appears that he's not able to provide the things you need or want from sex. My honest thought is no you don't tell him about him having a small penis. If he already has a problem with it then you confirming the issue will only hurt him more. If you can't deal with the missing's of sexual gradifications with him then you may be wise to move on to someone else. Maybe if you decide to stay you two could use more toys. Have him use them on you or during him giving you oral. Just thoughts

  • There's nothing you can do about his size, however you can improve his oral skills. You yourself know what feels good when it comes to him doing oral. If he is close to the right spot, direct him to it and when he hits it tell him. If you want to get a beter feel when he is inside you, pull up on your pubic mound. This will tighten your opening and you'll feel more of his penis. Communicating is the best cure for this.

  • Find another guy for sexual purposes but keep your boyfriend and let him watch you have sex.

    • Haha, really? I really don't think that would go down well at all.

    • U never know. Lots of guys are into that. Especially the little guys. Find a huge **** and let him watch how a real man does it.

  • sorry if it isn't working for you. if your not married or in a committed relationship, sounds like it's time to move on and find what satisfies you. if you think a larger penis is what you want and it's gonna work for you, then go for it. there are a lot of swinging d***s out there for you to choose from. you'll find what you are looking for.

  • You'll have to try a bunch of different positions. I'm sure that has to be some way for him to please you. Teach him how you want him to give you oral. If the problem is insurmountable to you, you may want to think about finding someone else. I feel like this will cause some penis size questions.