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Is true guys will do things with sluts that they won't do with their girlfriends?

I have heard this from both guys and girls, and I want to know if you guys out there agree with that ? and what do you think about it? I'm definitely more of the slut and I've slept with guys who were in relationships. the main guy I'm sleeping with is like engaged or something - I'm not sure I don't ask too many questions about their relationship but he has made comments about this too. I might ask him about it more in depth later on today. we have such hot sex that its hard for me to imagine him toning it down for his gf/fiance. He's like an animal almost but very passionate at the same time and in sync with my body. I just kind of want to know what kind of sex they are having because he says its "more on the vanilla side." I can't see him being that way. Even his personality doesn't seem in line with that and I'm thinking, okay is he lying about how he truly feels to his gf? I've noticed this with a few guys I've been with. i have an idea though. the fetishy things even though I haven't done too much of that (reminds me of bree van de kamp on desperate housewives and her husband way back in the day. so weird lol) and esp. the rough sex with dirty talking, etc. I know one of my close friends (but we don't sleep together) said he likes the feeling of being with a girl who he's not committed to because he won't have to feel judged or ashamed or like he's pressuring his girlfriend to do something. guys do you all really feel that when with your gfs vs. hookups or slutty girls ? Just curious.
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  • I'm not a guy obviously but I think in you're case it might actually be true.

    Other than that I hope that its not usually like that. I hope that when guys are in a long term relationship they feel that comfortable to tell their girlfriends/wifes what they want to do. It's understandable that when you start having sex and you don't know each other that well, you would be afraid he/she is gonna think you're a freak or doesn't want to do it, and if you have some crazy fetish you probably shouldn't bring it up on first date. But once you had sex for while I think most girls would really appriciate it, if their man would bring that kinda stuff up, because what some guys don't get is, girls want sex as much as guys do, and if they would ask they maybe would be surprised by the answer.

    A lot of girls want wild sex, though I have to admit that when you see couples on the street, and they're talking cute and stuff it's kinda hard to imagine them having really rough sex and I guess that would be a reason y a guy wouldn't want to do some stuff with his girlfriend, because he sees her as all cute and nice, but honestly get over it.I totally agree with aygirl.

    • Ha I have tried to imagine that sometimes when I see couples. It's weird. lol That's true I think a lot of girls would like some of the openness but a lot of girls are just not into it. I think communication and willingness to try stuff makes the best sex. anyway I'm just observing from the other side of the relationship.

  • in a way I can see were your coming from with this question, so I asked my boyfriend.

    To be fair despite the fact I'm his girlfriend an we love each other to the stars an back, doesn't mean I can't be a slut for him too!

    What guy would want to settle down with a slut? what guy would want to connect with A SLUT on a friendship relationship level?

    I think when you hit a stage in your life when your with a boyfriend an not only can you be his sweet innocent loving girlfriend, but also a whore in the bedroom is when your getting it right.

    A mans perfect women should be there best friend, a good cook and a whore in the bedroom!

    Well that's what I go by anyway xx

    • You didn't really answer the question lol but then I doubt your boyfriend would tell you anyway. You're not a "slut for him." you are just very sexual with him. there's a difference babe. I'm happy that you're so happy with your boyfriend though good for you. :)

  • My friends are actually in an open relationship in the sense that he's into some really weird stuff, and he doesn't want to ask his girlfriend to do it, and she doesn't want to. They both agreed that it would be insulting (sort of, almost?) to her. So she allows him to randomly hookup with sluts, to fill that need. And between the two of them it's more romantic, and relationshippy then "Take -it, -bitch"

    I think that so f***ed up, but to each their own.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Guys will only do things with other women ("sluts" if you want to call them that) that they won't do with their own girlfriends because they're girlfriends do not want to participate in those kind of sexual activities. The girlfriend either doesn't want to participate in a certain sexual activity because of religious beliefs against that activity, because of previous bad experience, or maybe because of how they will be viewed by society or more importantly, how they will be viewed by people they personally respect such as friends, mentors, and family. If a guy really wants to do a certain sexual activity that he can't do with his girlfriend because she doesn't want to then that guy might actually participate in that certain sexual activity with another female. Guys don't normally want to hurt the feelings of women, but guys want to fulfill their sexual urges even if it means hurting other girl's feelings. I hope my advice can help you out somehow or give you some peace of mind and best of luck with your romantic endeavors! Keep me posted!

  • I only date freaky girls, PRECISELY so I never have to deal with this issue. Ever.

    Your friend's a fool; why are you going to date someone that you're going to be dishonest to, sexually? Isn't part of the reason you like her is that you can *share* yourself with her? If a girl gets judgmental about my fetishes, I'm not hiding them--I'm dumping her.

    • Thats a great way to do things. I think you're far ahead of a lot of people. I try to tell these guys that all the time but then I can't complain too much because they are giving me what I want as a result.

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  • Yes. For many men it is very disrespectful to do certain things to your wife. In the "old" days, at least in the Italian culture, men wouldn't let there wives give them blow jobs since they had to kiss their kids with that mouth. That is pretty much gone now though. when in an early stage of a relationship when you are not comfortable being completely open in the bedroom or the woman doesn't want to do certain things, then you hook up with another woman and treat her like the pig she is. Come in her mouth, f uck her in the ass, then leave. When POS men cheat, they can have sex with another woman without it meaning anything at all, it really would be like it just didn't happen.

    now when you are comfortable with your wife or girlfriend, and can talk about what you really want to do, then maybe the woman is willing (ie: anal sex, swallowing if she hasn't up to that point).

    A man wants a whore in bed and a lady everywhere else.

    Of course in my situation my wife swallowed until we were married about 2 years so that would have been about 7 years total. then it was "I will suck you but no coming in my mouth." arghh very frustrating but I am not a cheater. I think those who cheat are big time POS's. So what am I to do...

    • Yeah I mean I think that's great that you don't cheat but I guess some people aren't as strong or don't really believe in monogamy but also don't want to lose the one they love.

  • The old adage is that sex is something that girls have and men want. Regardless of "what" they are (fiancee...slut) they decide what the menu is going to be. Nobody should do anything they don't choose to.

  • well sluts and girls that have lots of sex are only good for f***ing and chucking... so yea

    sluts are not worthy of a relationship

  • Yes you are right, guys do things with sluts, that they don't do with their girlfriends, but why are you asking? You are slut, you aim in life is having sex, and you are having sex, so you don't need to think about it,

    • Lol its just a question and I'm curious. haven't you ever been curious about something? by the way I can think about anything I freakin want to. :)

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