Trans woman stole my man!!!!

[Anonymous]

OMG! I'm so infuriated. I decide to take a break from my boyfriend to work on myself for a couple months. I'm trying to become more independent and get job experience since he thinks I'm spoiled. But I find out he's talking to a trans woman on facebook and it's p*ssing me off. She's not ugly, she's gorgeous but it makes me wonder how am I supposed to get him back? She and I have the same personality but he says he likes her for who she is and that he wouldn't have a problem dating her. I'll admit I have a fantasy of being with a trans man but he wouldn't replace my boyfriend...well maybe. I just feel so inferior to this chick and I don't know how to get him back. I don't know if he was on the DL the whole time or what but it's confusing and making me depressed that she stole him from me.

[Kellykelkelltik]

“I decided to take a break from my boyfriend.”

There’s your answer.

The fact that she is trans has nothing to do with anything.

Men are attracted to feminine energy, despite their genitalia. She’s likely doting, graceful and girly. Men adore these traits. You’ll be fine if you move forward, but you may have lost out in this guy. “Snooze you lose” didn’t come out of nowhere.

You chose to work on yourself, that’s admirable. The sacrifice may have been your ex. No biggie. There will be another. And you don’t have to hate him or trans women to get there. Onward sister!

[Anonymous]

Never blame the woman in a situation like this? He was the one to make a commitment to you, and if he breaks it its his own fault. It doesn't matter if she's trans or not.

Don't try to "win him back". Find a new man who will love you for you.

[KarKingJack]

Well, he hasn't committed to it, like. You initiated the break, so if you wanna get him back, go do it. Right? He's saying he would, not he wants to, anyway. If you guys have the right kinda relationship, he'll take you over her anyday. Maybe its just time now to get things back? Anyway, you have to expect this if you start a break.

[Asker]

Idk anymore. He said he would date her in a heartbeat. No consideration required. I'm reading what he wrote on her wall. He says he's never been with an MTF but he doesn't see it as a problem.

[KarKingJack]

Yeah but again, when your on a break, you have to expect that. If you want him you have to fight for him now, like. That's how it goes, you know? You gotta initiate this one. And maybe he would date her in a heartbeat, but he probably still wants to get back with you. And anyway, people exadurate like nothing on earth when they like someone.

[AcEMasTeR]

This guys a tranny

[Asker]

I guess you're right

[KarKingJack]

Its difficult but it shouldn't affect anything ^^ And nah I'm not a tranny. But its an easy mistake to make =D LOL

[sinful1620]

She didn't steal jack sh*t. You're the one who took a break from your boyfriend. It was YOU who rejected HIM. You're just p*ssed off and jealous that he's giving attention to someone you want to see as inferior.

[Asker]

How am I seeing her as inferior? I'm the one who feels inferior to her, stupid. I'm p*ssed off but she's a woman and I'm a woman, but he's caught up in this MTF fantasy that I would've never known about had it not been for her.

[l-hedoniste]

You can't steal what's thrown away; you dropped him, the T-girl picked him up. If you expected him to mope around until you got yourself together, your mistake.

[xprincessxrose]

Pretty much what he said here. If you were wanting to stay with him, you should be improving yourself while staying by his side. Abandoning him and more than liekly hurting him in the process only to just nab him out of possible happiness he may have found later is just wrong. If he was important to you, then you should be sticking by his side through thick and thin. The reason you feel inferior is because someone else is making him happy when you turned your back on him. Like he said. The mistake here is yours, and your going to have to fight HARD if you want him back. and I wouldn't be letting him go so easily should you get another chance.

[Camilus]

You feel inferior to a transsexual man? And stop calling him a "chick," he has cocknballs so he is a dude. Oh yeah, and your boyfriend is gay...that is all.

[rikooprate]

Lol!!! He's TOTALLY gay!

[Buckzor]

YOU LOST your ex-man to this new person, not the other way around.

[AcEMasTeR]

im sure she's not a trance -_-

[Asker]

No she's trans! It says so on her facebook

[AcEMasTeR]

Well yur bfs gay what are ya gunna do lol there's nothing wrng with yu he's just gay

[Asker]

DL guys are the worst

[AcEMasTeR]

DL?

[Asker]

Down low or secretly gay guys lol

[AcEMasTeR]

Lol your funny

[JamieLoves]

LMAO!
You snooze! You loose!
I’m sure that she was more women than you were...
Trans women give a shit about their men and how they look. They’re always so female and stay beautiful...

[8string]

I was dumped by someone who left me for another woman recently.

I now sexually identify as a toaster oven.

[Sabretooth]

i'd say that this has been on-going.