Guys virgin vs. non-virgin girls?

[Anonymous]

I just feel weird dating girls who are no longer virgins. Any other guys feel the same way?

[Anonymous]

I'm a virgin. and I feel weird letting guys know that because it seems like there are a few types of guys that I want to avoid: Guys who only want you for your virginity and want the thrill of conquering a virgin..and guys who have some weird virgin complex that are so consumed with your lack of sexual history that they put you on a pedestal for it, regardless of the fact that they may not be virgins themselves. Most girls are no longer virgins, girls like me are in the minority. I'm not any better or worse than another girl just because I haven't had sex yet. If anything I find that my virginity makes things more complicated. Especially when I run into a guy who acts like I'm some type of goddess because I haven't slept with any other guy...but hypocritically expects that he'll be sleeping with me too. ugh It's annoying. But if you're a virgin yourself then that's different! I think that's cool if you're a virgin and you want another girl that is a virgin so you can have that shared experience with..but if it's just because you think a nonvirgin is "used' or a whore then grow up.

[vmw2008]

Totally agree for all those reasons. I call those guys "cherry chasers" because they have some weird complex that non virgins are used up (even though THEY are non virgins). I avoid them like the plague.

[Asker]

Most of these non-virgin girls even in high school have had sex with 2 or more guys that's why.

[vmw2008]

If you've had sex you have no room to talk.

[selfishstars]

Great answer. :)

[peace-love-couture]

I agree.Great answer

[darkknight1x]

I don't consider a woman who is not a virgin to be a whore. If she has had many sexual partners without a relationship then she is a whore. I do put a woman that's a virgin on a pedestal but I also put a woman that's not a virgin but is faithful to her man and doesn't have many random hookups on a pedestal. I'm a virgin by the way.

[koushikshine]

@vmw2008 But here the husband may be a virgin too

[vmw2008]

I can kind of understand this if you are a virgin and hoping to share your first time with another virgin. If you aren't a virgin it's hypocritical and based on insecurities. It's superficial and forces people to live up to standards you won't live up to yourself. I'm a virgin and I don't care what a guy is.

[peace-love-couture]

I absolutely love this answer,took the words outta my mouth...or head

[Willy1989]

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[katiesmuff]

Can't imagine there are many guys who think this way or there will be a large group of you competing for very few women.

I don't understand what virgin over non virgin has to do with anything?

What is so weird about a non virgin?

[dudeman]

If a women has been with a lesser man she is undesirable

[katiesmuff]

I'm going to take a chance and guess that you are single, no girlfriend, no nothing!

[Asker]

I feel the same way as him and I had a girlfriend. Girls who are not virgins can have STDs for one. With a virgin you can be 100% sure that they are clean.

[koushikshine]

Being compared with exes, contracting STD's, fear of being dumped like the other partners as she has dumped her exes so there's a chance she will dump him as well, Fear of being laughed at in bed by the non virgin, the fear that the exes may still be in touch with her as friends and thus he will have to encounter her exes often and sometimes they may make some comments on him about his wife just for fun, thus hurting his feelings.

[frustratedchump06]

I'm a virgin guy, although I would prefer to be with a virgin girl since it would be more special and more romantic, I kinda don't care if a girl is not a virgin, since the vast majority of girls 18 and over are not virgins, so I can't be too picky

[doctorwhofan23]

I am a virgin and I have never been on a date but I want to date a girl who is also a virgin.

[bubbleboy]

Personally, I could care less, but I can see it if the guy is a virgin that he'd feel a little awkward dating a girl who longer is a virgin due to the experience gap.

[TC123]

That's stupid. I'm not a virgin why would I care if she was or wasn't?

[joshuaty2010]

I don't find it weird. Because am dating a girl to know her better and see what good about her and see if we are compatible that could create a much stronger relationship.

[dudeman]

uhh I don't feel weird if she's a virgin but if she's had long term relationships that bugs me but if she has had sex I don't see a problem with that sex doesn't really give you baggage but relationships do

[dudeman]

Lol if she's not a virgin

[alliecheergirl123]

I mean I can see where you are coming! I wouldn't mind being a guys first if he was saving it for a girl he was really really really into! That shows he isn't a fuckboy and is pretty secure

[ConsultantIsBack]

No that's weird to me to even think that. Being virgin into your 20s is usually a red flag for personality issues, etc. in my opinion

[jamesland77]

if you're a virgin, that's perfectly acceptable, but if you're not a virgin, why the hell should the girl have to be?

[rssingh286]

I want virgin girls and I want to break her virginity. If any girls who want to loose her virginity please follow me

[Sanjiv]

Hi i like friendship with virgin girl

[Willy1989]

Hey... i'm william from lebanon - 26 y. old christian... and i need a virgin girl for serious realtion and marriage.
Do not hesiate to contact mr girls at: william-akiki@hotmail. com

[Anonymous]

I m male.

Want sex foe money

[Anonymous]

i would never ever EVER want to date a virgin.

for one...they probably suck in bed if they are a virgin and also it will be such a ordeal to have sex with them with all this "first time" and emotional crap.

[TwiceTru]

That's kind of a rude answer...sex is an acquired skill. Anyone can improve with practice.

[whhhaaax3]

Damn boyy that's harsh but its pretty funny lmfao

[likewoahhh]

well, aren't you a gentleman.

[Anonymous]

Good to hear someone say it. We (when I was) feel they are "used goods", sort of belonging to someone else and we want new, as in learning together. Unless you marry your first love, you will later be experienced and should not feel weird if she is as well.