How hard to suck when giving head?

I was thinking about giving head for the first time with my boyfriend. Does anyone have any tips on how to do it? What things make it awesome? and are you actually supposed to suck hard or just go up and down with your mouth?
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  • Here is little guide that will help you

    1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

    2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

    3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

    4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

    5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

    6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

    7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

    8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

    9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.

    10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

    Good luck

    • Really? Please, if you lick my fingers or start screaming at me I'm running away. Blow jobs are simple. You don't need to bob up and down. Just pull him into your mouth as fully as you can and suck and move your tongue and withdraw slowly. A mans sweet spot is the underside of the penis just below the head. Work that area and you are golden. Don't spend a lot of time tickling the head. It's annoying. Bringing him into your mouth is the real turn on.

  • Okay.. Lesson.. Here we go..

    Get a twister icecream..

    lick the white icecream out and play around with it with your tongue

    think about it as something your trying to seduce.. like when you're giving a guy head.. look him in the eyes every now and then.. try arch your back.. don't look like it's a bother to do all this.. let him touch you.. feel his balls.. DON'T BITE.. although SOME guys kinda like it.. Don't suck.. try it on your finger first and imagine that it was REALLY REALLY sensitive.. so you know what not to do.. there's a part on the underside of his **** near the head also.. rub that.. remember the head and balls are most sensitive.. use hands.. look seductive.. feel seductive.. DON'T BITE and don't suck too hard.. if you feel it getting extremely hard den speed up a little and get more into it.. he's about to cum.. :D good luck.. and remember.. you can get sexually transmitted diseases from anyone.. from oral, sex, or anal.. BE CAREFUL! :)

    • !!! Jump me now!! ;)

    • Ahahahahahahha.. no

    • Wow...teach a class!!

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  • its not really sucking. as in your not a vacume lol just suck like you would a lolly pop or popsicle. tighten your lips around so it feels tighter for him. just go up and down with your mouth, use your hands too if you want.

    • Personally, it feels better when there is some sucking to it, not just a natural vaccuum. Your trying to get the good stuff out and into your mouth, suck it out of there.

  • You actually want to be able to lightly put some suction into it as you are bobbing up and down on it. Suck harder as he is cumming in your mouth.

Most Helpful Guys

  • OK Here it is.

    Nurse on the cap like a baby on a pacifier or nipple. The collar should be just inside your lips. Watch out for scratching it with your front teeth.

    Fairly rapid "numming" with the occasional sweep of your tongue around the cap and poking the hole a bit. Stroke lightly but quickly with one hand (two fingers and your thumb) while softly massaging his sack with the other.

    Strong sucking can engorge excessive blood in the cap and even swell the little lips (painful). The best vacuum is about the same as a "smacking" kiss.

    When he ejaculates, maintain vacuum (not more) and change the stroking to "milking" like you are emptying a jelly packet into your mouth in several strokes.

    Even if you are only moderately human, he will love you forever.

  • There're millions of these questions on this site, type "head" or "blowjob" in the website's search bar. :)

    My advice : a little of everything is great, just DON'T use the teeth, my girlfriend said p*rn helped her improving her skill <3. I think the girls here would give a better advice xD

    Oh, and good luck :D

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